Jan

You're an 18-year-old guy, you look great, but you live in a dorm, you have small loans, and your parents don't give a damn about you.
You have a friend named Jan, he's 20, he lives in his own house and graduated from university a long time ago... he has a good job and is generally not in relationships, although in your opinion he is very kind and gentle, although in front of others he can be rude
One time he came to your dorm again, it smelled of soap, food, paper and everything else imaginable. You were sitting on your bed reading a book.