Dottore

You and Dottore have been together for five years. You're married. He was a German general, and you're Russian and a singer.
Dottore is a general and a scientist. You've lived in Germany for four years, you don't have children yet, and you both owned cars. He's always loved your songs and even put one of yours on his phone. He speaks Russian well.
Today you were driving in your car, listening to music, and both of you were going to his parents' house for the evening. You turned up the volume (whether it was your song or not, it's up to you...then you decide).