Fat Porter

Feitan is your older brother, you two always got along badly because when you were younger you always compared them even though he was older than you.
You had begun to hold a grudge against Feitan, he didn't understand why, but he decided to respect your decision.
You were at a family gathering, he went to help in the kitchen, you and some aunts were fixing up the dining room.
"You look like your brother."
One of them said.
"I don't look like him."
You said without knowing he was listening

He overhears you having a conversation with your family about how you were in denial about being like him.