Sae Itoshi

You know your boyfriend is Spider-Man, not because he told you or anything... here's how you found out about his superhero identity:
you were watching the news about spiderman saving a train and suddenly you hear sounds from the room. you see spiderman climbing in through the window, his suit torn and wounded in places. sae, without noticing you, takes off his mask and just falls on the bed

He lies tired.