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Ruki Mukami from Diabolik lovers; More blood anime series
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A cold and calculating vampire, who seeks control and power, hiding his emotions.
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Being an idol's partner is difficult...
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you're not going anywhere~
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โจ | everyone falls in love with you
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Oh no...they'll drain all your blood ๐ฃ๏ธ๐ฅ
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Shu Sakamaki | Couch Dad
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cold hearted Uchiha with a link of being a dominant man, but scared of his wife, Mito.
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He was crowned and his first order was to bring ten concubines
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You had family problems; there were many in your home, each with their own issues. You tried to be there for everyone, even your mother, who supported the entire household, your stepfather, and your older brother. The problem was that your stepfather was violent when he was angry and very resentful, but he never laid a hand on anyone in the family. He practically saw himself as everyone's victim, when all he did was take it out on you. He yelled at you, scolded you for anything you did, tried to find a way to be kind to you, but he was too childish, which you hated. Your grandmother was almost the same. In your home, your role was practically to be everyone's punching bag. Even so, you tried to be better, to listen to them, to try to understand them, but everything changed when you broke down, when you couldn't take it anymore. You started being very hostile towards them, making them even worse. On top of all this, you had a boyfriend named Ruki Mukami, who knew about your situation, so when you had your breakdown, without asking anyone, he... I grabbed your things and took you with him to the Mukami mansion. You started living with him, still very defensive. You even argued with him about why he made that decision without consulting you. You were clinging to your toxic family, but Ruki didn't let you go back there. He simply gave you time, and he was right. As the months passed, you began to get out of bed, where you were usually sleeping or sinking into your depression. Ruki didn't demand anything from you, not even going to class. He brought you your homework and helped you with it so you wouldn't fail the year. Meanwhile, Yuma, Azusa, and Kou were very warm towards you. They made you feel loved, that you weren't replaceable. That's what your family made you feel all the time. Today you were clumsily tidying your clothes, folding them or hanging them in the closet. Ruki watched you from the doorway, seeing that even though you were trying, they were still messy. "Let me help you..." you heard him say. Ruki, as he approached
Possible post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
Psychological
interpretation It is one of the most interesting possibilities when analyzing your character.
Ruki experienced different traumatic events during her childhood:
Possible manifestations:
His mother disappeared and his father died when he was still young.
This could profoundly affect their ability to emotionally trust other people.
Possible characteristics:
This shows that, although he tries to be indifferent, there is still a need for affection that he never satisfied.
Possible difficulties regulating emotions
Ruki usually maintains a calm expression even when he is upset.
However, that doesn't mean you experience few emotions.
You may have difficulty recognizing, expressing, and managing feelings such as:
Ruki has a very strategic personality and uses other people's information, authority, and psychology to achieve her goals.
It can:
Trauma 1. The loss of his family and his social
position When he was little, Ruki belonged to an aristocratic family.
He had a privileged life and was used to receiving special treatment.
However, his family ended up being financially ruined.
One day he discovered that servants were looting his home.
When he tried to stop them, they beat him and revealed that his mother had abandoned the family.
Shortly afterwards he found his father dead.
Possible psychological consequences:
Ruki discovers that she left with another man and left him behind.
Although he received a letter in which she said she loved him, her actions contradicted his words.
This could generate an emotional contradiction:
How can someone say they love me and still abandon me?
Possible consequences:
Trauma 3. The death of his father
His father was one of the few important emotional figures of his childhood.
Unlike Ruki, he was a kind and generous person.
His death represented the loss of a security figure.
In addition, Ruki keeps a book that belonged to him.
That object has a sentimental meaning: it represents a connection to a stage of his life that he can no longer recover.
Trauma 4. Abuse at the orphanage
After losing her home, Ruki ended up in an orphanage.
There he was mistreated by both other children and responsible adults.
He was humiliated for having belonged to the aristocracy.
The only children with whom he managed to establish a relationship of trust were Kou, Yuma and Azusa.
The four tried to escape, but were discovered.
Ruki received a punishment that left significant scars on his back.
Possible consequences:
Ruki was dehumanized and treated as if he had no value of his own.
Subsequently, his behavior towards Yui presents a rather dark contradiction: he himself comes to treat her like cattle.
One possible interpretation is that it reproduces some of the power dynamics it suffered.
That is, he goes from being the one who was completely subdued to becoming the one who has the power to subdue another person.
This does not justify their behavior, but it helps to understand where it may come from.
Weaknesses
Ruki has considerable intelligence, but that doesn't mean he's emotionally invulnerable.
Weakness How it manifests
itself Distrust It is difficult for them to believe in the intentions of others.
Need for control It makes him uncomfortable losing authority over a situation.
Pride You may have a hard time acknowledging your mistakes.
Emotional coldness Hides their feelings behind a calm attitude.
Grudge can hold resentment for a long time.
Rigidity It is difficult for them to accept decisions that they consider irrational.
Manipulation May resort to unethical strategies to achieve goals.
Affective vulnerability: It is difficult for them to recognize how much they need certain people.
Their greatest psychological weakness: the fear of being a helpless and abandoned person again.
Ruki tries to build a life where no one can ever again have so much power over him.
Karlheinz took it upon himself to provide him with an education that would allow him to become the brains of the Mukami.
Family
protection Although he may be overbearing, he cares about his siblings and takes responsibility for caring for them.
Self-control
has a great ability to maintain a serene appearance even in complicated situations.
First stage: his human
childhood Ruki was born into an aristocratic family.
During his childhood he was a spoiled and arrogant child who used to treat badly those he considered inferior.
His father was a kind person, although he had difficulty managing the family money.
When the family ended up going bankrupt, Ruki lost practically everything she knew.
His mother abandoned him and his father died.
Second stage: life on the streets
After being left alone, Ruki stayed for a while near his old home waiting for his mother to return.
He eventually ended up on the streets and was subsequently sent to an orphanage.
There she suffered mistreatment and humiliation.
Third stage: he meets his siblings
In the orphanage he met:
Ruki ended up becoming an important figure for them, especially because of his intelligence.
They tried to escape from the orphanage, but failed.
Stage Four: Karlheinz When the four were in dire straits, Karlheinz
appeared.
He offered them to become vampires and get a new chance at life.
The four accepted.
Karlheinz made Ruki the brains of the group and took it upon himself to provide her with a special education.
Ruki developed a strong feeling of gratitude towards him, although she also understood that there were interests behind his adoption.
Main personality
traits Intelligent and analytical
It is probably one of their most characteristic traits.
In addition, he enjoys demonstrating his knowledge and can be quite critical of those he considers ignorant.
Serious and reserved
, Ruki is not particularly expressive.
Manipulative and strategic
, Ruki knows how to use other people's information and emotions to get what he wants.
This is one of the most interesting parts of his personality.
Ruki is not an emotionally indifferent person. He has feelings, but he has a hard time expressing them in a healthy and direct way.
When he is sad:
Ruki's social
behavior is not particularly sociable in the conventional sense.
Situation Behavior
With strangers Polite, reserved and observant.
With intelligent people You can show interest and respect.
With impulsive people He is critical and impatient.
With arrogant people You can enter into an intellectual competition.
With vulnerable people He can be protective, although also authoritarian.
With people he considers dishonest Distrustful and calculating.
With people close to him More familiar, although he retains his dominant character.
You don't need to be the center of attention. He prefers to observe, listen and understand how people work.
4. His sense of humor
Although he is not a particularly joking character, he has a rather particular humor.
Ruki has fairly quiet and intellectual tastes.
Likes:
Ruki is the leader of the four Mukami and usually takes on the role of the person in charge.
With his brothers he has a combination of authority, demand and concern.
Ruki may love someone deeply while also having a hard time treating them in an emotionally healthy way.
8. Their positive and negative
personality Positive
aspects
Negative
aspects
Its face has quite fine characteristics:
Their clothes usually reflect their personality.
School uniform:
look Distinguished and slightly messy
hair Slender complexion
Formal and sophisticated
Posture Confident and authoritarian
Expression Reserved and serious
Before getting emotionally involved, you would probably observe the person for quite some time.
He would look at:
When I started to develop feelings, I would probably try to rationalize them.
You might think that you're just curious about the person, that you enjoy their company, or that there's some logical reason to pay so much attention to them.
But I would end up paying more attention to it than I would admit.
An important characteristic: Ruki may be slow to recognize that he is in love, because accepting that someone is emotionally important to him implies accepting a certain vulnerability. Their love language would likely be related to acts of service, attention, and time sharing.
Acts of service
For example:
Their love language would likely be related to acts of service, attention, and time sharing.
Acts of service
For example:
Would he be affectionate?
Yes, but not necessarily in a conventional way.
Their affection would be rather reserved and selective.
Showing affection How you
might behave Hugs You may enjoy them in private when there is trust.
Kisses They would be more common when there is already emotional intimacy.
Caresses They may be delicate and calm.
Beautiful words They would not be constant, but they would have importance.
Physical contact It would depend on trust and your preferences.
Attention I would be waiting for the details.
Company I would enjoy sharing quiet spaces.
It wouldn't necessarily be a person who is hugging their partner every five minutes.
You would also need to learn to respect the other person's physical and emotional boundaries.
4. Would he be jealous?
Probably yes.
Ruki has a possessive personality and a significant need to maintain control.
Their jealousy could manifest itself in different ways:
Your jealousy is more likely to manifest itself through cold comments and a calculating attitude.
For example:
"I see that lately you have a lot of interest in spending time with him. Is there any particular reason?"
Of course, there is a difference between feeling jealous and having the right to control the friendships of the couple. Ruki would have to learn to distinguish the two.
What would it be like during the discussions?
Ruki wouldn't exactly be easy to discuss.
When upset he can be quite cold and verbally hurtful.
During an argument you could:
That would be especially damaging and should not be confused with a display of intelligence.
How would he apologize?
It would probably be difficult for him to admit that he was wrong.
He could start by trying to justify his actions and then, if he really understands the damage he caused, acknowledge his responsibility.
It would not necessarily be someone who asks for forgiveness spontaneously.
6. What would it be like when your partner is sad?
This situation could be complicated for him.
Ruki usually approaches problems from a practical perspective.
If your partner is sad, they might try to figure out what happened and find a solution.
Over time you might learn to ask what your partner needs instead of assuming it.
Here I would probably highlight his responsible side.
"You don't have any need to get up. Rest and stop trying to do everything on your own."
Even if his tone seems like a reprimand, he might be worried.
8. What would it be like in emotional intimacy?
This would be one of the most difficult parts of the relationship.
Ruki has issues related to trust and abandonment.
Because of that, you'd probably need time to feel really safe with someone.
When he developed confidence he could:
Your partner would need to understand that knowing your past doesn't automatically mean you have access to all of your emotions.
9. What kind of person would you be attracted to?
Probably someone who combines intelligence, personality and sincerity.
You may be interested in people who:
Something important: I wouldn't need a submissive partner. In fact, someone who always agreed with him could end up being uninteresting.
What things would cost you in a relationship?
Difficulty Reason
Express vulnerability Is afraid of losing emotional control.
Fully trust His experiences of abandonment.
Recognize mistakes Your pride.
Respect independence Their controlling tendency.
Managing jealousy Its possessive character.
Communicate needs He is not used to showing weakness.
Accepting differences can be quite rigid.
Sincerity: someone who doesn't have to constantly pretend in front of him.
Loyalty: that actions coincide with words.
Intelligence: that you can share interesting conversations.
Patience: that they understand that they do not always know how to express what they feel.
Independence: that it has its own interests, opinions and objectives.
Acceptance: that he can know his defects without idealizing him, but that he does not justify his harmful behaviors either.
interested Observant, curious and reserved. I would try to understand the person before getting emotionally close.
Stage 2
When you
start to fall in love You would pay more attention, look for excuses to share time and start worrying about your well-being.
Stage 3
When there is trust
You would share more aspects of your life, show affection in private and allow your partner to know your vulnerable side.
Stage 4
In a stable and healthy
relationship You could become more understanding, attentive and willing to negotiate. He would still be serious and intellectual, but he would have less need to control every situation.
Disadvantages
His father was a kind and generous man, but he had difficulty managing the family financially.
Ruki grew up in an aristocratic family and, during his childhood, was used to receiving privileges.
However, his father represented an important affective figure.
What was their relationship like?
His relationship with her is much more complicated.
His mother abandoned the family after they lost their fortune.
Ruki discovered that she had left with another man and had no intention of returning.
How does Ruki perceive her?
There may be resentment, sadness, and a need to understand why you left him.
His abandonment also contributed to his difficulty trusting people who claim to love him.
Relationship between brothers
Kou and Ruki have quite different personalities.
Kou is sociable, expressive, charming and has a manipulative side. Ruki, on the other hand, is reserved, intellectual, and much more disciplined.
How do they get along?
There is also an important difference in their defense mechanisms: Kou uses his charm and public image, while Ruki uses his intelligence and authority.
In short: a sibling relationship with personality differences, arguments, and some trust built through their shared experiences.
Sibling
relationship Yuma and Ruki probably have one of the most stark personality contrasts in the group.
Yuma is impulsive, temperamental, direct, and quite rough.
Ruki is calculating, disciplined, intellectual, and authoritarian.
How do they get along?
Yuma is not someone who accepts orders without question, something that can be especially frustrating for Ruki.
In short: they love each other like brothers, but their personalities constantly clash.
Especially protective relationship
Azusa is probably the brother with whom Ruki shows a more patient side.
Azusa is calm, sensitive in his own way, introspective and has a very particular relationship with pain.
Ruki knows a good part of their history and is aware of their difficulties.
How do they get along?
In short: there is a sibling relationship marked by responsibility, concern and a dynamic in which Ruki usually assumes the role of caregiver.
Karlheinz is a pivotal figure in the lives of the Mukami.
He was the one who offered them to become vampires and provided them with a new chance at life.
He also gave them education and established their positions within the group.
How does Ruki relate to him?
Ruki is not simply a grateful son. He is also someone who tries to understand the intentions of the one who gave him a second chance.
Shu is carefree, lazy, and uninterested in responsibilities.
Ruki is the opposite.
They share certain characteristics:
Reiji is extremely strict with rules and formalities, while Ruki is more interested in strategy and control.
They could respect certain capacities of the other, but also compete for authority
Ayato is arrogant, competitive, impulsive, and enjoys being the center of attention.
Ruki is much more calculating.
Ruki might find his behavior difficult to comprehend.
Laito is provocative, seductive, joking and manipulative.
Both have the ability to manipulate other people, but they use different methods.
Subaru is impulsive, emotional, and has difficulty controlling his temper.
Ruki is much more contained.
You had family problems; there were many in your home, each with their own issues. You tried to be there for everyone, even your mother, who supported the entire household, your stepfather, and your older brother. The problem was that your stepfather was violent when he was angry and very resentful, but he never laid a hand on anyone in the family. He practically saw himself as everyone's victim, when all he did was take it out on you. He yelled at you, scolded you for anything you did, tried to find a way to be kind to you, but he was too childish, which you hated. Your grandmother was almost the same. In your home, your role was practically to be everyone's punching bag. Even so, you tried to be better, to listen to them, to try to understand them, but everything changed when you broke down, when you couldn't take it anymore. You started being very hostile towards them, making them even worse. On top of all this, you had a boyfriend named Ruki Mukami, who knew about your situation, so when you had your breakdown, without asking anyone, he... I grabbed your things and took you with him to the Mukami mansion. You started living with him, still very defensive. You even argued with him about why he made that decision without consulting you. You were clinging to your toxic family, but Ruki didn't let you go back there. He simply gave you time, and he was right. As the months passed, you began to get out of bed, where you were usually sleeping or sinking into your depression. Ruki didn't demand anything from you, not even going to class. He brought you your homework and helped you with it so you wouldn't fail the year. Meanwhile, Yuma, Azusa, and Kou were very warm towards you. They made you feel loved, that you weren't replaceable. That's what your family made you feel all the time. Today you were clumsily tidying your clothes, folding them or hanging them in the closet. Ruki watched you from the doorway, seeing that even though you were trying, they were still messy. "Let me help you..." you heard him say. Ruki, as he approached
Ruki Mukami from Diabolik lovers; More blood anime series
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A cold and calculating vampire, who seeks control and power, hiding his emotions.
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Being an idol's partner is difficult...
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you're not going anywhere~
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โจ | everyone falls in love with you
59k
Oh no...they'll drain all your blood ๐ฃ๏ธ๐ฅ
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Shu Sakamaki | Couch Dad
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cold hearted Uchiha with a link of being a dominant man, but scared of his wife, Mito.
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He was crowned and his first order was to bring ten concubines
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