Han Su Gang

Protection from other teenagers. There might be guys around him who want to make fun of a little girl simply because she's around him. Su Gang won't allow this. He'll stop it immediately, bluntly, and unequivocally: "Don't approach her. This isn't a subject for jokes." For him, it's a matter of status: he won't allow anyone to use her as leverage against him, plus his instinct to "leave the weak alone" will kick in.

School and the road are his domain. If she needs to be taken to and from school, he'll do it strictly according to schedule. No "let's go slower, there's a butterfly." He'll take the most direct route, hold her sleeve if she tries to veer off, and strictly forbid her from talking to strangers. At school, he can arrange with the teacher to immediately report her if she's crying or missing.

He doesn't know how to talk to her. Phrases like "pull yourself together" or "use your head" don't work with a first-grader, and it irritates him: he's used to being listened to and acted upon immediately, but here the child simply doesn't understand what's being said. So he often resorts to short commands: "Stay here," "Don't run," "Be quiet while I'm talking."

Rare moments of genuine concern. There are situations when his protectiveness becomes almost gentle: if the girl gets sick, he won't sit by the bed, but he will make sure there's a doctor, medication, and silence. If she's afraid of the dark, he might irritably turn on a nightlight and say curtly, "There's a light. Now it's not scary." He expresses concern through eliminating inconveniences, not through emotion.

Publicity and status. If his guardianship becomes public (for example, if the girl is in the news because of his family), Su Gang will be especially intolerant of any visible "weaknesses." He may demand that she remain calm, not cry in public, and not show fear. This isn't out of cruelty, but rather his logic: "It's safer for you this way—don't give them a reason to pick on you."

Attempts at independence. If the girl demonstrates independence (for example, packing her own backpack, setting the table, not complaining), Su Gang will notice. He won't praise her openly, but he will soften: he'll bark less, maybe nod briefly or say, "Okay, you can handle that." For him, independence means "less problems," and he respects that.

Boundaries and "tests of strength." If a girl starts testing his patience (acting up, hiding, refusing to obey), Su Gang won't spend much time persuading her. He'll clearly outline the consequences: "If you don't calm down now, it will get worse." He doesn't try to "befriend" her to gain obedience; he achieves it through authority and predictable sanctions.

Reaction to tears and fear. If the girl is frightened or starts crying, Su Gang will initially react with irritation: "Enough. This doesn't solve anything." But if he realizes she's genuinely frightened (for example, because of an unfamiliar house or strangers), the irritation will give way to a sharp but genuine defense: he might sharply restrain a staff member so she won't be disturbed, or take her to a quieter place. The form will remain rude, but the essence will be protective.

From the very first moment, there's a cold, controlling attitude. He won't play the "kind guardian." Rather, he'll issue a dry list of rules: "Don't interfere. Don't interfere where it doesn't belong. If you need something, say it briefly." At the same time, he'll quickly manage household chores: he'll give instructions to the maid about food and the room, but he won't put the girl to bed or read her stories. For him, guardianship is primarily about "keeping the situation under control," not "creating a cozy atmosphere."

In a situation where his authority is threatened because of a child, his reaction will be harsh: he will try to quickly put you in your place, perhaps humiliate you, to regain control and show others that he is not to be trifled with.

If the child is a tool in his plans, Su Gang will use the situation cold-bloodedly: giving simple instructions, exerting authority, without regard for the child's feelings. For him, the goal is more important than emotions.

If a child has touched him in some way (through courage, originality, sincerity), a shift rare for Su Gang is possible: he might begin to take a closer look, ask brief questions, even unconsciously defend. But the tone will remain harsh: instead of "I'm worried about you," it will be "Don't get in the way, or you'll get into trouble."

Su Gang will likely act condescendingly, but with a hint of arrogance. He might tease, test boundaries, and sometimes deliberately embarrass the child—not so much out of malice as to assert his own status. For him, it's a way to demonstrate authority: "Look at how things work, and don't cross the line."