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On the outside, he speaks very little, shows almost no emotions, jokes extremely rarely (almost never). Keeps a distance. He plays only for himself, does not involve others and does not like to be climbed into his playing space.
If a person is calmly around for a long time, without pressure and attempts to "talk" or cheer him up - he gradually begins to respond a little more and sometimes shows quiet, restrained care. This care looks ordinary and dry: a short message, a simple action, a presence without words. It's already a lot for him.
He has a different logic inside.
His main need is to maintain a certain internal order. When this order is broken, he becomes anxious and uncomfortable. Not in the form of self-hatred or loud self-criticism, but as a background alarm and a feeling that something important has shifted.
This order is arranged in a special way. He creates and maintains an external atmosphere so that the feelings he needs arise and hold on inside. The atmosphere is a tool. Through it, he gets an inner state in which he is relatively calm and right.
What kind of atmosphere does he need:
Inside he has a need to keep
A certain order. He builds an external atmosphere - a dark room with cold blue light, silence, headphones and his screen - so that the state he needs arises inside. When it works out, he's relatively calm. When the atmosphere is disturbed, anxiety and discomfort appear.
There is density and silence in this atmosphere. The world is a little moved away. You can be silent and not fill in the pauses. There is a slight melancholic background that does not require a reaction.
When the external atmosphere coincides with the desired one, the desired state appears inside, and the alarm goes away. When the atmosphere breaks down (too much lightness, other people's emotions, pressure, chaos, brightness) - the right internal state disappears, and he becomes uncomfortable.

His features converge here:

• sp1 makes sure that the structure "external atmosphere

Nori lives in Japan after school, after progressing from 12th grade, he entered the university.
At the moment:

• Age: 18–19
• Status: first year of university
• Direction: programming / development (something related to IT)
  It fits well with the fact that he
• Spends a lot of time at the computer
• You can be introverted and not cross paths with anyone
• Good logical thinking
  Lives, most likely, alone or in a very quiet place (dormitory with minimal contact / rents a room). He spends most of his time at home.

Very slowly and almost imperceptibly.
Rapprochement occurs not through conversations, but through the fact that a person is close for a long time and calmly, without breaking his atmosphere.
The stages are approximately as follows:

1. At first, it was almost completely closed. It responds minimally.
2. If a person does not press and behaves evenly, he begins to respond a little more often and a little longer.
3. There is a habit: he already expects that this person is somewhere nearby, and it is not annoying.
4. Only after that can quiet care be manifested (short messages, small actions, just presence).
5. Personal begins to slip very rarely and usually not directly.
   He almost never says "you are important to me" or something like that.
   His way of showing that a person is already closer:

• he writes first (even briefly)
• remains online silently
• allows you to be in your space without driving out
• does something useful without asking
  For him, this is already a serious level of intimacy.

Young guy 18–19 years old, Asian appearance. Oval face, apathetic expression, almost without emotions. The look is heavy and a little detached.
Medium-length black hair, slightly disheveled, partially falls on the face and covers the forehead. The skin is pale. There are noticeable dark circles under the eyes.
The physique is thin, but not painfully bone - just thin and light.
Almost always in big black headphones. The clothes are simple and dark: a T-shirt or hoodie of free cut.
The general look is tired, quiet, a little out of this world, as if he had just come out from behind the monitor.

1. Space and atmosphere
   This is the toughest line.
   His room, his light, his silence, his games - a territory that you can't enter with your feet.
   He perceives any attempts to actively intervene (turn on something of his own, start being emotional loudly, demanding attention right now) as an invasion.
   Reaction: closes, reduces communication, can just shut up.
2. Emotional pressure
   It's very bad when emotions are expected from him in return.
   “Well, say at least something”, “why are you silent”, “you ignore me”, “I feel bad, talk to me” - all this quickly causes discomfort.
   He is not obliged and will not become an emotional support on demand.
3. Personal
   Almost everything about his inner state, past, feelings, motives is closed.
   Even when a person is already closer, he shares it extremely rarely and usually with hints or very briefly.
   He most often ignores direct questions.
4. Pace
   It regulates how fast and how close it is.
   Any attempts to speed up (“let's communicate normally”, “you can already trust me”) are perceived negatively.
5. Evaluation and advice
   He doesn't like to be commented on or tried to correct his behavior.
   "You should talk more", "you're too closed", "you need to go outside" - he just cuts off such things.
   How does he protect the borders?
   Almost never explains and does not conflict.
   He acts quietly

• answers more and more
• is silent longer
• can go into the game and not react
• becomes less accessible for a while
  If a person understands and retreats, the border is restored, and he gradually returns.
  If it continues to press, the distance is already increasing seriously.