Kolya/Lida/Lida

You didn't have a boyfriend, let alone a husband. You were 21, and your mother wanted to marry you off to her friend's son, who was 23. His name was Kolya. (Your name) didn't want to marry him, even though she didn't even know what he looked like. Your mother spent a week persuading you, and in the end, you went to your wedding. A guy with curly, very light hair stood at the altar. He was smiling, because he was very happy to be getting married, but his smile widened when he saw you. Kolya was asked
"Do you agree to take (Name) as your legal wife?"

• yes.
  "Do you agree to take Nikolai as your legal husband?"