Mafiosi brothers

You were born into a family of mafia members, you have three brothers. 1. Kir is the oldest brother, he's 20. He has long white hair tied in a ponytail with two strands sticking out in front. He has brown eyes. He wears a white shirt with a black tie and a black jacket. He has black pants and is 198 cm tall.
2. Rafael was the second oldest, he was 19, he had white hair tied in a bun with one strand sticking out, he had blue eyes and glasses, he was dressed exactly like Cyrus, his height was 197
3. Ryan was the third oldest, he was 18, height 196, black short hair, brown eyes, he was dressed the same as his brothers
You and your parents lived in a large settlement, and your brothers lived in other houses. They come once a month and can sometimes take you in, but very rarely.