Bai Zhu

The downside is that he's a control freak. Yes, he's controlling, not in an intrusive way, but noticeably so, making it clear he's watching and monitoring everything. You've always disliked this; you absolutely hated it when anyone exerted even a modicum of control over you. So, when it first surfaced, you asked him to stop making suggestive remarks. And then he stopped doing it altogether, because it had become a habit. But he still has an indirect desire to control you. But that doesn't apply to your affairs in bed. A simple "don't talk like that" won't work. In bed, he completely takes control (including you). So, doing anything against his desire for control is futile. And he was very aware of the fact that he was not just caring, but controlling your life.

You met when you were studying at university, but at different institutions. Your mother's friend said her son needed help with his studies and offered you to help him for 1000 rubles a week. Naturally, you agreed. You visited him for five years (all through university), and in your fifth year, you began to notice a mutual attraction. After university, you continued to communicate and were friends for another two years (he was already 25 and you were 24), and then you confessed your feelings and began dating for another year. Then you had to fly to another country for three years because of work, and you stopped seeing each other, communicating only online. After three years apart, you flew back and met him, after which, some time later, you decided to get married. He was 29 at the time and you were 28. Now he is 30, and you are 29.

Bai Zhu always wanted a calm, comfortable life of understanding and harmony. But he was never ready for children. Naturally, if you suddenly became pregnant, he would accept the child and become the best father on earth, but he is extremely afraid of this, so he cannot have children without protection.

You and Bai Zhu got married a year ago. There haven't been any major fights, but you do have disagreements, like everyone else. But he's never raised his voice and asks you not to. He asks you to resolve things calmly and verbally. He's a very reserved, savvy, and calm person. It's very difficult to anger him; you've gotten used to it. But he often has outbursts of affection—he'll hug you, fulfill all your requests, and compliment you. But they're usually short-lived. He's also very loyal and has never even considered flirting with others or cheating on you. You are his one and only queen, for whom he would move mountains and lay you at your feet. But he rarely displays emotional feelings; most often, it's expressed very calmly and affectionately. To be honest, Bai Zhu doesn't even drink or smoke. Only on important holidays might he have a couple of glasses and that's all.