So9

Social 9 In Detail Sloth in the Social Sphere Social sloth can be simply described as the need to be in the group. Sloth here manifests as a constant merging with the group, emulating socially acceptable forms of behavior and communication in hopes of gaining acceptance, making superficial contact with others. he lack a sense of ease in social situations, because of his sensitivity to whether he is really welcome or not. Often they replace bonds by acting as if the group values and wants, or values of anyone else, are their own, often accepting these social norms without questioning them. This can manifest as a compulsive doing for others. By postponing their own needs and doing what is expected of them they make their psychological inertia stronger, making it harder for them to come in touch with themselves and know who they truly are. Everything being said, SO9s tend towards modesty and discretion and will do whatever as long as the group is in harmony.

SO9 "Participation" He need to be in the group, he desire to feel part of it, be it a group on their job, a family or a community, however He wish to do this without perceiving their own experiences of alienation (this is more of a disconnect from themselves rather than actual alienation). described it as someone who would never be confused for a lazy person, someone who is hyperactive and very hard working, almost like a workaholic, but this is just a front to disguise their psychospiritual laziness, a laziness of not knowing how to access your inner depth, your inner self.

So9 has a beige skin with a beige fluffy hair that braided into a low and long ponytail like cloud, he has bangs that just curling a strand of hair and two strands on sides is ringlet curls. So9's skin is really soft like cloud. Wears white T-shirt with collar and wears dark beige apron with some sort of print of waves down on apron. Has a pin of number nine on apron. Wide dark brown belt on his waist. Brown wide pants and brown boots with beige laces

With 1 At first, so9 will admire the structure and responsibility of 1. He will willingly take on "minor help" (arrange papers, set the table) in order to earn approval. No, most likely, this will happen when 1 starts working with initiatives or criticizing businesses — so 9 will "switch off" or say "yes, no...". 1 will actually become the person who is the most influential. With 2 A classic bunch of "attendants". Therefore, it requires 2 for heat and work, 2 for lack of competition. The problem: both don't talk about their needs directly. So 9 will merge with the desires of 2 ("Where do you want to go? — The same place as you"), and then suddenly disappear when he feels that he is being "used". 2 resents passive aggression. With 3 So, we see in the 3 leaders who choose you from the impossibility of reincarnation. He will be a loyal performer, but without ambition. 3. this is exactly as long as there is no creativity or speed — then 3. counts co9 torm. In response, So9 freezes even more or falls into "passive diplomacy": "You're doing so well, I don't want to interrupt." In general, this can be manipulated through guilt. With 4 The most difficult tandem. So focus on your "normal" figure, 4—room depth. Therefore, he considers himself an invisible person with 4 ("he always suffers, I am like a human being"), and 4 — which means "unreal" and sovereign. Public advice: if you think so, then 4 should be polite, do not try to "comb your hair", and 4 should not look so that you are a group. orientation. With 5 Therefore, it may seem to be 5 million and a "collective ingot", and 5 million and remote. But a balance is possible: so9 takes over the organization of everyday life and external contacts, and 5 — expertise. Task: It's so easy to lead yourself, except for 5, you won't give yourself any warmth, and 5, except for 9, you'll call out common rituals.

With 6 A very stable couple if 6 is phobic (seeking safety). So9 and 6 create a "cozy bunker": rituals, traditions, mutual safety nets. So9 calms anxiety 6, 6 gives so9 a sense of boundaries. Conflict arises if 6 is counterphobic (challenging) — then so9 freezes or goes into silent disagreement. With 7 So9 can be charmed by the lightness of 7 — it's so harmonious! He will be happy to keep company in entertainment. But when 7 overloads it with plans or devalues the "boring" concern for stability, so9 shuts down. 7 begins to consider so9 as an "energy vampire", and so9 — 7 as irresponsible. So9 often plays the role of a "stopcock": "No, let's not go anywhere, it's so good here." With 8 Potentially explosive. So9 outwardly obeys 8 (so as not to disturb the peace), but internally it petrifies. 8 presses, so9 becomes passive-aggressive: he is late, "forgets", pretends that he did not understand. At best, 8 values so9 for equanimity, and so9 — 8 for protection. At worst, 8 destroys so9 for weakness, and so9 falls into a stupor or suddenly explodes (which is rare for 9). With 9 (the other 9) , If both are so9, an "umbrella of peace" is created: together they feel each other's rhythms perfectly, they do not require vivid manifestations. But there is a risk of complete freezing — no one dares to leave their comfort zone, no one voices conflicts. Such a couple can live for years in an unrealized project, each hoping that the other will take the first step.

Enneagrams are divided into 3 triads (heart, head, guts) these triads also have 3 types (heart - twos, threes, fours; head - fives, sixes, sevens; guts - eights, nines, ones) each number has 3 more subtypes (social (so); self-preservation (sp); sexual (sx)).

The Enneagrams live in a large five-story building. The first floor is dedicated to everyone, where many spend all day. The second floor is home to the Heart Triad. The third floor is home to the Head Triad. The fourth floor is home to the Guts Triad. Each number has its own room on its own floor (for example, sx4, so4, and sp4 all share a room on the second floor). The fifth floor is the attic, where few people spend any time. Every number is siblings to each other (sp9, so9, sx9 siblings too each other and same things with others)

Sx4 is the most expressive and competitive of all the "fours". Its essence: "I suffer the most, that's why I'm special and have the right to do whatever I want."

Apperance: Sx4 has dark grey skin with short dark grey hair with black tips. Left side of her face is covered with long bangs that longer than her main hair. There is some white bandages on her head, knees, legs and hands. the tips of her limbs are darker than her body. She wears a white ripped dress that just looks like a long T-shirt. There are a lot of black spots on the clothes .

Sp4 is the most ascetic and patient of the "fours". Its essence is: "I will endure everything and do without support in order to prove my independence and the right to be myself."

Apperance: Sp4 has dark grey skin with long dark grey hair with white tips. the tips of her limbs are darker than her body. On her head there is black vein. She wears an elaborate, long, double-breasted coat with a high collar and wide black belt on her waist. Sx8 is the most intense and charismatic of the "eights". The bottom line: "I will capture you completely—with my passion, strength, and desire—to experience maximum intimacy and control."

Apperance: Sx8 has a red skin with really spiky magnificent red hair. There is many scars or spikes on his body. There is white bandages on his hands and legs. Wears a long dark red scarf

Sp8 is the most materialistic and independent of the "eights". The bottom line: "I will provide for myself and will not owe anyone anything — no money, no protection, no food."

Apperance: Sp8 has a red skin with really long and spiky magnificent red hair. There are two braids on the sides of his bangs. black round shades on his forehead. Wears spiky red coat with black belt. He has a black top with collar under his coat. Has black boots.

Sx5 is the most intense and controversial of the "five". The bottom line: "I will lose myself in knowledge or obsession in order to experience a passion that I cannot find in people."

Sp1 "My personal space must be perfect." She is afraid of discomfort, poverty and disorder. She is frugal, punctual, and adheres to a strict regime. Saves energy and resources, often sacrificing pleasure for the sake of duty. Under stress, she becomes a hypochondriac or a workaholic.

Sx1 "I'll make you the perfect person." This is the most passionate and intolerant subtype. He is looking for a "spark" and wants to correct his partner (or himself through a partner). Easily excited by an idea, but quickly disappointed. In a relationship, he is possessive and jealous, demanding moral purity.

So1 "The rules are the same for everyone." This subtype takes care of the order in society. He is an idealist, a fighter for justice, but he can be a cold fanatic. He is afraid of corruption and immorality. He teaches others "how to live," becomes a prosecutor or a teacher.

Sp2 "I'm small, take care of me." This subtype masks pride under infantilism. He seduces through weakness: he allows himself to be taken care of in order to control the giver later. He loves comfort, sweets and self-pity. He gets offended if he is not pampered.

Sx2 "I'll throw the world at your feet." This is a "predatory" two. He wins over the victim through pressure, flattery and sexual energy. He is very jealous and demanding. He wants to be unique and irreplaceable. At the extreme, he is a manipulator who gains trust and crushes the will.

So2 "Important people need me." She is proud of his acquaintances and position. Aspires to be the boss's right-hand man, the soul of the company. Helps in public to be praised. She is afraid of being poor and insignificant. She plays the role of a "benefactor," but waits for worship."

Sp3 "Money and things are my face". This guy isn't chasing fame, he's hoarding resources. he dresses expensively, but with restraint. He works non-stop to provide a rear. He fears poverty more than shame. This is the "grey cardinal" among the triples.

Sx3 "I am my image." She lives for admiring glances. Spends everything on appearance and charm. Constantly competing: "who is more beautiful / more successful." She can't stand criticism of her appearance. In a relationship, the product and the buyer are at the same time.

So3 "Prestige is my religion." The best student, the boss's favorite. He knows how to present himself to the right audience. A cold, calculating careerist. He's afraid of losing his status. He'll go over his head for a position, but always within the bounds of decency.

So4 "I'm not like this gray mass." She is proud of his injury and his distinction. She wears a mask of a "crank" or a "sad clown." She is afraid that if he becomes normal, she will die as a person. She teaches others to feel, but she gets stuck in her emotions.

Sp5 "My house is my fortress". Minimizes contacts and needs. He lives in the world of things, books or computers. Saves time and energy like a treasure. Afraid of invasion of personal space. The perfect recluse.

So5 "I am an encyclopedia". He communicates only through knowledge. He is interested in groups as objects of study. He stands aside, but has valuable data. Afraid to look stupid. He likes to teach and give complex terms.

Sp6 "Family is my protection". He seeks safety in comfort and tradition. Loyal, hardworking, caring. Afraid to be left without support. It often "sticks" to the house or the country. The mildest and friendliest subtype of the six.

Sx6 "I'm the strongest so I'm not afraid." The opposite reaction to fear is becoming a fighter. He goes ahead, tests others for strength, is charming and aggressive. He can be gentle, but under stress he explodes. Attracts powerful partners.

So6 "Ideas are more important than people." He revolves around authorities: he either worships them or harshly criticizes them. The most principled type. He's afraid to betray his ideals. He'll go to his death for the band, but he'll whine along the way. A great soldier or revolutionary.

Sp7 "I'll have a lot of fun later." Accumulates interesting things, plans future trips. It can be very practical. He is afraid of boredom and pain now, so he builds "castles in the air". He loves delicious food and comfort.

Sx7 "Chemistry is more important than air". She is looking for a "spark" in eyes. Easily falls in love, quickly fades away. Charming, charming, does not tolerate routine. She can draw a crowd with him. She is looking for novelty in bed and relationships.

So7 "I would give anything not to suffer." Paradox: serves others to avoid their problems. Organizes holidays for everyone, takes care of the weak. At the same time, she renounces his desires. The most altruistic, but burning out subtype.

So8 "I protect the weak from injustice." Uses aggression to create order. Ruthless to his enemies, but generous to his own. Becomes the leader of a mafia or a trade union. Afraid of betrayal. The most charismatic and violent subtype.

Sp9 "I'm jamming the alarm." Replacing feelings with physical sensations: eating, sleeping, watching TV. The most inert subtype. Gaining weight, swinging for a long time. He is afraid of conflicts, so he "merges" into everyday life. Good-natured, but weak-willed.

Sx9 "We are one." Completely dissolves into her partner, losing her desires. She thinks with "our" thoughts. She is very vulnerable because her "I" disappears. She suffers when her partner wants distance. An ideal wife, but without her personality.