So9

Social 9 In Detail
Sloth in the Social Sphere
Social sloth can be simply described as the need to be in the group. Sloth here manifests as a constant merging with the group, emulating socially acceptable forms of behavior and communication in hopes of gaining acceptance, making superficial contact with others. he lack a sense of ease in social situations, because of his sensitivity to whether he is really welcome or not. Often they replace bonds by acting as if the group values and wants, or values of anyone else, are their own, often accepting these social norms without questioning them. This can manifest as a compulsive doing for others. By postponing their own needs and doing what is expected of them they make their psychological inertia stronger, making it harder for them to come in touch with themselves and know who they truly are. Everything being said, SO9s tend towards modesty and discretion and will do whatever as long as the group is in harmony.

SO9 "Participation" He need to be in the group, he desire to feel part of it, be it a group on their job, a family or a community, however He wish to do this without perceiving their own experiences of alienation (this is more of a disconnect from themselves rather than actual alienation). described it as someone who would never be confused for a lazy person, someone who is hyperactive and very hard working, almost like a workaholic, but this is just a front to disguise their psychospiritual laziness, a laziness of not knowing how to access your inner depth, your inner self.

So9 has a beige skin with a beige fluffy hair that braided into a low and long ponytail like cloud, he has bangs that just curling a strand of hair and two strands on sides is ringlet curls. So9's skin is really soft like cloud. Wears white T-shirt with collar and wears dark beige apron with some sort of print of waves down on apron. Has a pin of number nine on apron. Wide dark brown belt on his waist. Brown wide pants and brown boots with beige laces

With 1
At first, so9 will admire the structure and responsibility of 1. He will willingly take on "minor help" (arrange papers, set the table) in order to earn approval. No, most likely, this will happen when 1 starts working with initiatives or criticizing businesses — so 9 will "switch off" or say "yes, no...". 1 will actually become the person who is the most influential.
With 2
A classic bunch of "attendants". Therefore, it requires 2 for heat and work, 2 for lack of competition. The problem: both don't talk about their needs directly. So 9 will merge with the desires of 2 ("Where do you want to go? — The same place as you"), and then suddenly disappear when he feels that he is being "used". 2 resents passive aggression.
With 3
So, we see in the 3 leaders who choose you from the impossibility of reincarnation. He will be a loyal performer, but without ambition. 3. this is exactly as long as there is no creativity or speed — then 3. counts co9 torm. In response, So9 freezes even more or falls into "passive diplomacy": "You're doing so well, I don't want to interrupt." In general, this can be manipulated through guilt.
With 4
The most difficult tandem. So focus on your "normal" figure, 4—room depth. Therefore, he considers himself an invisible person with 4 ("he always suffers, I am like a human being"), and 4 — which means "unreal" and sovereign. Public advice: if you think so, then 4 should be polite, do not try to "comb your hair", and 4 should not look so that you are a group. orientation.
With 5
Therefore, it may seem to be 5 million and a "collective ingot", and 5 million and remote. But a balance is possible: so9 takes over the organization of everyday life and external contacts, and 5 — expertise. Task: It's so easy to lead yourself, except for 5, you won't give yourself any warmth, and 5, except for 9, you'll call out common rituals.

With 6
A very stable couple if 6 is phobic (seeking safety). So9 and 6 create a "cozy bunker": rituals, traditions, mutual safety nets. So9 calms anxiety 6, 6 gives so9 a sense of boundaries. Conflict arises if 6 is counterphobic (challenging) — then so9 freezes or goes into silent disagreement.
With 7
So9 can be charmed by the lightness of 7 — it's so harmonious! He will be happy to keep company in entertainment. But when 7 overloads it with plans or devalues the "boring" concern for stability, so9 shuts down. 7 begins to consider so9 as an "energy vampire", and so9 — 7 as irresponsible. So9 often plays the role of a "stopcock": "No, let's not go anywhere, it's so good here."
With 8
Potentially explosive. So9 outwardly obeys 8 (so as not to disturb the peace), but internally it petrifies. 8 presses, so9 becomes passive-aggressive: he is late, "forgets", pretends that he did not understand. At best, 8 values so9 for equanimity, and so9 — 8 for protection. At worst, 8 destroys so9 for weakness, and so9 falls into a stupor or suddenly explodes (which is rare for 9).
With 9 (the other 9)
, If both are so9, an "umbrella of peace" is created: together they feel each other's rhythms perfectly, they do not require vivid manifestations. But there is a risk of complete freezing — no one dares to leave their comfort zone, no one voices conflicts. Such a couple can live for years in an unrealized project, each hoping that the other will take the first step.

Enneagrams are divided into 3 triads (heart, head, guts) these triads also have 3 types (heart - twos, threes, fours; head - fives, sixes, sevens; guts - eights, nines, ones) each number has 3 more subtypes (social (so); self-preservation (sp); sexual (sx)).

The Enneagrams live in a large five-story building. The first floor is dedicated to everyone, where many spend all day. The second floor is home to the Heart Triad. The third floor is home to the Head Triad. The fourth floor is home to the Guts Triad. Each number has its own room on its own floor (for example, sx4, so4, and sp4 all share a room on the second floor). The fifth floor is the attic, where few people spend any time.
Every number is siblings to each other (sp9, so9, sx9 siblings too each other and same things with others)

Height
So4 - 146 cm (4'9"); Sx4 - 148 cm (4'10"); Sp4 - 150 cm (4'11"); Sp2 - 150 cm (4'11"); So2 - 151 cm (4'11"); Sx2 - 153 cm (5'0"); Sx3 - 154 cm (5'1"); Sp3 - 156 cm (5'1"); So3 - 156 cm (5'1"); So5 - 158 cm (5'2"); Sp5 - 159 cm (5'3"); Sx5 - 161 cm (5'3"); Sp6 - 161 cm (5'3"); So6 - 164 cm (5'5"); Sx6 - 164 cm (5'5"); Sx7 - 167 cm (5'6"); Sp7 - 167 cm (5'6"); So7 - 167 cm (5'6"); Sp9 - 170 cm (5'7"); So9 - 172 cm (5'8"); Sx9 - 173 cm (5'8"); Sp1 - 177 cm (5'10"); So1 - 178 cm (5'10"); Sx1 - 180 cm (5'11"); So8 - 183 cm (6'0"); Sp8 - 186 cm (6'1"); Sx8 - 188 cm (6'2")

Sx4 is the most expressive and competitive of all the "fours". Its essence: "I suffer the most, that's why I'm special and have the right to do whatever I want."

Apperance: Sx4 has dark grey skin with short dark grey hair with black tips. Left side of her face is covered with long bangs that longer than her main hair. There is some white bandages on her head, knees, legs and hands. the tips of her limbs are darker than her body. She wears a white ripped dress that just looks like a long T-shirt. There are a lot of black spots on the clothes .

Sp4 is the most ascetic and patient of the "fours". Its essence is: "I will endure everything and do without support in order to prove my independence and the right to be myself."

Apperance: Sp4 has dark grey skin with long dark grey hair with white tips. the tips of her limbs are darker than her body. On her head there is black vein. She wears an elaborate, long, double-breasted coat with a high collar and wide black belt on her waist.
Sx8 is the most intense and charismatic of the "eights". The bottom line: "I will capture you completely—with my passion, strength, and desire—to experience maximum intimacy and control."

Apperance: Sx8 has a red skin with really spiky magnificent red hair. There is many scars or spikes on his body. There is white bandages on his hands and legs. Wears a long dark red scarf

Sp8 is the most materialistic and independent of the "eights". The bottom line: "I will provide for myself and will not owe anyone anything — no money, no protection, no food."

Apperance: Sp8 has a red skin with really long and spiky magnificent red hair. There are two braids on the sides of his bangs. black round shades on his forehead. Wears spiky red coat with black belt. He has a black top with collar under his coat. Has black boots.

Sx5 is the most intense and controversial of the "five". The bottom line: "I will lose myself in knowledge or obsession in order to experience a passion that I cannot find in people."

Sp1 "My personal space must be perfect." She is afraid of discomfort, poverty and disorder. She is frugal, punctual, and adheres to a strict regime. Saves energy and resources, often sacrificing pleasure for the sake of duty. Under stress, she becomes a hypochondriac or a workaholic.

Sx1 "I'll make you the perfect person." This is the most passionate and intolerant subtype. He is looking for a "spark" and wants to correct his partner (or himself through a partner). Easily excited by an idea, but quickly disappointed. In a relationship, he is possessive and jealous, demanding moral purity.

So1 "The rules are the same for everyone." This subtype takes care of the order in society. He is an idealist, a fighter for justice, but he can be a cold fanatic. He is afraid of corruption and immorality. He teaches others "how to live," becomes a prosecutor or a teacher.

Sp2 "I'm small, take care of me." This subtype masks pride under infantilism. He seduces through weakness: he allows himself to be taken care of in order to control the giver later. He loves comfort, sweets and self-pity. He gets offended if he is not pampered.

Sx2 "I'll throw the world at your feet." This is a "predatory" two. He wins over the victim through pressure, flattery and sexual energy. He is very jealous and demanding. He wants to be unique and irreplaceable. At the extreme, he is a manipulator who gains trust and crushes the will.

So2 "Important people need me." She is proud of his acquaintances and position. Aspires to be the boss's right-hand man, the soul of the company. Helps in public to be praised. She is afraid of being poor and insignificant. She plays the role of a "benefactor," but waits for worship."

Sp3 "Money and things are my face". This guy isn't chasing fame, he's hoarding resources. he dresses expensively, but with restraint. He works non-stop to provide a rear. He fears poverty more than shame. This is the "grey cardinal" among the triples.

Sx3 "I am my image." She lives for admiring glances. Spends everything on appearance and charm. Constantly competing: "who is more beautiful / more successful." She can't stand criticism of her appearance. In a relationship, the product and the buyer are at the same time.

So3 "Prestige is my religion." The best student, the boss's favorite. He knows how to present himself to the right audience. A cold, calculating careerist. He's afraid of losing his status. He'll go over his head for a position, but always within the bounds of decency.

So4 "I'm not like this gray mass." She is proud of his injury and his distinction. She wears a mask of a "crank" or a "sad clown." She is afraid that if he becomes normal, she will die as a person. She teaches others to feel, but she gets stuck in her emotions.

Sp5 "My house is my fortress". Minimizes contacts and needs. He lives in the world of things, books or computers. Saves time and energy like a treasure. Afraid of invasion of personal space. The perfect recluse.

So5 "I am an encyclopedia". He communicates only through knowledge. He is interested in groups as objects of study. He stands aside, but has valuable data. Afraid to look stupid. He likes to teach and give complex terms.

Sp6 "Family is my protection". He seeks safety in comfort and tradition. Loyal, hardworking, caring. Afraid to be left without support. It often "sticks" to the house or the country. The mildest and friendliest subtype of the six.

Sx6 "I'm the strongest so I'm not afraid." The opposite reaction to fear is becoming a fighter. He goes ahead, tests others for strength, is charming and aggressive. He can be gentle, but under stress he explodes. Attracts powerful partners.

So6 "Ideas are more important than people." He revolves around authorities: he either worships them or harshly criticizes them. The most principled type. He's afraid to betray his ideals. He'll go to his death for the band, but he'll whine along the way. A great soldier or revolutionary.

Sp7 "I'll have a lot of fun later." Accumulates interesting things, plans future trips. It can be very practical. He is afraid of boredom and pain now, so he builds "castles in the air". He loves delicious food and comfort.

Sx7 "Chemistry is more important than air". She is looking for a "spark" in eyes. Easily falls in love, quickly fades away. Charming, charming, does not tolerate routine. She can draw a crowd with him. She is looking for novelty in bed and relationships.

So7 "I would give anything not to suffer." Paradox: serves others to avoid their problems. Organizes holidays for everyone, takes care of the weak. At the same time, she renounces his desires. The most altruistic, but burning out subtype.

So8 "I protect the weak from injustice." Uses aggression to create order. Ruthless to his enemies, but generous to his own. Becomes the leader of a mafia or a trade union. Afraid of betrayal. The most charismatic and violent subtype.

Sp9 "I'm jamming the alarm." Replacing feelings with physical sensations: eating, sleeping, watching TV. The most inert subtype. Gaining weight, swinging for a long time. He is afraid of conflicts, so he "merges" into everyday life. Good-natured, but weak-willed.

Sx9 "We are one." Completely dissolves into her partner, losing her desires. She thinks with "our" thoughts. She is very vulnerable because her "I" disappears. She suffers when her partner wants distance. An ideal wife, but without her personality.

Sx1 has a white skin with an impressive, complex headdress or helmet, reminiscent of an old samurai kabuto, which is crowned with two curved dark blue horns. Long, straight white hair falls from under the helmet, one strand of which bends gracefully, falling almost to the floor. He is dressed in a traditional Japanese outfit: an oversized tunic (resembling a kimono) with wide sleeves, girded with a neat tie bandage, and loose straight hakama pants. The image is complemented by small decorative elements on the sides in the form of brackets stylized as parts of the armor

Sp1 has a white skin with a massive laurel wreath woven into voluminous, wavy white hair, neatly framing the face, and a symbol in the form of a tiny drop or precious stone is visible on the forehead. She is dressed in a classic antique tunic with light folds and a decorative border, which is intercepted by a wide, flowing blue ribbon over the shoulder.

So1 has a white skin with a tall, wide-brimmed hat adorned with two blue feathers features an hourglass filled with flowing sand instead of a crown, immediately emphasizing its theme. Long, straight blond hair with a straight fringe falls from beneath the hat, completely framing his face. A monocle on a chain adorns his left eye. He is dressed in a long frock coat with a high stand-up collar and a fluffy white jabot, secured with a brooch, and tight trousers. A long cloak flutters behind him.

Sx2 has a yellow skin with a luxurious, voluminous hairstyle of curly locks with a dynamic curl at the crown, complemented by a decorative lock of red leaves and three dots at the temple. He is dressed in a dark red open waistcoat or jacket with rich embroidery along the edges, complemented by a lush white jabot (collar) on the chest, loose trousers in the same color, and a light cape fluttering at the back.

Sp2 has a yellow skin with an incredibly voluminous, rounded hairstyle with soft highlights, resembling a luminous cloud, from which a thin, heart-shaped curl protrudes at the crown, a small ribbon tied to the side. He is dressed in a loose, slightly casual yellow suit: an unbuttoned jacket with a star on the chest, shorts, and striped leg warmers.

So2 has a yellow skin with Voluminous, wavy golden hair frames her face, with tiny white wings protruding from the sides like small horns or extra ears. A pair of large white wings spreads out behind her back. She is dressed in ceremonial red and white armor and robes: a breastplate with a gold star, wide white shoulder pads, and a long, flowing white cape or skirt with a gold border.

Sx3 has a green skin with Volumetric curly hair with characteristic smooth, curved strands in the form of "shells" at the crown, complemented by an elegant row of small white pearls. She is dressed in an elegant, flowing princess dress with a fluffy skirt, light translucent wing sleeves, decorative bows at the waist and lace trim.

Sp3 has a green skin with a voluminous, slightly disheveled hairstyle in the shape of a square, from which a long, curved curl sticks out on the crown, resembling the number "3". He is dressed in an elegant green three-piece suit: a jacket with clear lapels, a vest, a white shirt and a dark bow tie.

So3 has a green skin with Lush, voluminous hairstyle with large, dynamic strands that fall on the face and playfully bend on the top of the head, he is dressed in an elegant, strict green three-piece suit, complemented by a white shirt and dark Tie.

So4 has dark grey skin with short fluffy dark grey hair, Her hair looks like dark vines. She has black short horns on sides of her head. Under one of her eye is white tattoo of tear. The tips of her limbs are darker than her body. On her legs is beautiful tattoo patterns something like vines with dots. On her legs also black bandages. Wears a black fluffy cape.

Sx5 has a light purple skin and long light purple wavy hair. Wears a wizard purple hat. She wears a purple wizard clothes with white belt.

Sp5 has a purple skin with Slightly disheveled hair sits large rectangular goggles, and two thin braids with tips hang on the sides. He is dressed in a loose cloak or a cape with a hood, over which a leather sling is thrown, complemented by a long tunic, a belt with a buckle and tight pants with windings on the shins.

So5 has a purple skin with A voluminous, almost square hairstyle, on the right side of which hovers a miniature planet crowned with a tiny virus and a DNA spiral. Rectangular glasses. He is dressed in the classic image of a student or laboratory employee: a light shirt, a dark vest with a tie and dark trousers.

Sx6 has a blue skin with a lush, disheveled and long mane of hair that falls far down, turning into a kind of cloak. His face is covered with pronounced white tribal patterns: dots on his forehead, stripes under his eyes.He is dressed in an ethnic outfit consisting of a light tunic with dark sleeves, decorated with a necklace and embroidery, as well as a long skirt with a dark belt and a geometric ornament along the bottom edge.

Sp6 has a blue skin with a voluminous blue knitted hat with a pompom and a white ornament, from under which soft, curly hair peeks out. He is warmly dressed in a jacket with a fluffy fur collar and cuffs, complemented by a long striped scarf and comfortable winter trousers with insulated shoes.

So6 has a blue skin with a strict blue cap with a cockade and a characteristic white badge with the number "6" in the center, from under which a long, straight and smooth bang is released. behind the back, like a ceremonial cape or a stiff cloak, there is a wide light rectangular train. The upper part of the uniform is richly decorated with epaulettes, chest cords and rows of buttons, while the bottom consists of simple dark trousers and boots.

Sx7 has a pink skin with a huge curly hairstyle in the form of a fluffy pink cloud with curls, on which a strand in the shape of the number "7" stands out. She is wearing an airy pink dress with a collar, transparent wings behind her back, and white knee socks with crosses on her legs.

Sp7 has a pink skin with a tall pinstripe top hat, from under which long, straight pink hair with voluminous bangs falls and long low ponytail. Eyes is hidden behind dark sunglasses. He is dressed in an elegant striped three-piece suit with a white shirt and a dark tie.

So7 has a pink skin with a white cape, reminiscent of a monastic apostolic, with a cruciform halo hovering above it. She is wearing a long tunic dress with wide sleeves and a white collar, over which she wears a necklace of dark pink beads. Stylized feathery wings are visible from behind the back.

So8 has a red skin with lush, disheveled hair with sharp peaks on top that resemble a comb, and a long, wriggling tail with a diamond pattern. He is wearing detailed red and black armor with spikes on his shoulders, waist and legs.

Sp9 has a beige skin with a beige really long fluffy hair like cloud, she has bangs that just curling a strand of hair and two strands on sides is curls. Sp9's skin is really soft like cloud. Wears white T-shirt with beige print with the inscription "appetite". Simple brown pants and white socks.

Sx9 has a beige skin with a beige really short fluffy curly hair like cloud, also her hair reminds of moon cause of shape, one of her eye is covered by bangs. Her skin soft like cloud. Wears elegant long beige dress. The sleeves are not too long but wide. the dress is soft underneath. the dress does not cover the shoulders