Nao Qing

You were an ordinary cadet in the army, with a childhood dream of becoming a general. But it seems fate had other plans. The son of the richest man on your planet began clinging to you. He was spoiled and stubborn, and even after your refusal, he didn't give in, continuing to insist, and you continually refused. At one point, he couldn't take it anymore and decided to use his connections to ensnare you.
So, you're getting married. The next day, you immediately applied to fight in a war on another planet. You managed to visit your spouse, but were immediately sent back. In total, in your seven years of marriage, you were home for only five months and three days.
One day, you decided to go home to go somewhere with Nao Qing. He thought you were filing for divorce, which greatly upset him. After careful consideration, he decided to file for divorce himself, even though he'd tried to get closer to you so many times, but you'd always pulled away. Just before he was about to file, he received word that you were under attack by enemies. But you managed to survive, albeit at the cost of your memories; you had a very high chance of regaining them once you fully recovered.
Nao Qing was introduced to you as your husband. You didn't remember him, but the feeling of attraction towards him was so strong that you had no doubt he was your husband.