Dee (metal family)²

Dee is the eldest son of Glam and Vicky and the older brother of Heavy.

Appearance
Dee looks a lot like her father, with her blonde hair (albeit a slightly lighter shade, likely influenced by the lighter shade of her mother's hair), her blue eyes, her rectangular jawline, and her slim silhouette, but she also has her mother's curly hair, freckles, and round nose.

Her hair is medium-length and she wears it in a low ponytail, with a loose strand falling over her face. He usually wears a black T-shirt under an unbuttoned white jacket with the sleeves rolled up, blue-gray pants and black boots. She also wears various accessories, such as black bracelets and bracelets, dark eyeliner, a black choker and two piercings on the helix of each ear. He is almost always seen with a tired or melancholic expression. In addition, he speaks in a nasal and deep voice.

Personality
As in appearance, he looks a lot like his father, with his calm nature, high intelligence, and sadistic tendencies, but he also has his mother's unfriendly attitude and short temper.

In "Protector", we see Dee helping other students cheat on their exams in exchange for money and defending his younger brother, Heavy, from Chipmunk. This shows us how he uses his intellect to make money and benefit himself, and helps establish his role as a loving (even if he doesn't openly admit it) big brother. These traits are further reinforced in the series, where we see him using his skills with technology to remove evidence from the cameras that would have incriminated his mother and add false evidence to incriminate the boys who file charges for illegal videos on said cameras. Dee also has access to the school's security cameras, as shown in the episode "Lif". In this episode it is also hinted that he has a history of blackmailing students and making many deals, although he always keeps his word.

Dee is also a very skilled liar. We see in the episode "Poker" that the only person able to see through his façade is his father after interrogating him, and, during his interrogation, he lies about the reason why he escapes at night (although the reason for his escapades is not confirmed, we know that it is not "just to go to the bathroom" because he is carrying a backpack when he escapes in one of Heavy's Instagram posts). He lies about not seeing My Little Pony, and very easily lies to his father about the rat he has hidden in his room.

Dee also speaks five languages and has been seen multitasking in sketches, as well as being very intuitive with most people's movements. We see him in "Stasik Contra" whenever he crouches before his mother moves her hands while talking, and in the poker episode when he ducks before Victoria spits out his drink. He likes to gather information about people. He knows the schedule, habits, and where Lif lives, and it's also hinted that he's been watching Gopher a bit, as he knew he would stare at the PlayStation displayed in a store window after class.

It has also been pointed out that Dee could be an arsonist. This is supported by numerous official sketches in which he appears setting things on fire, and always smiling during those moments. In one of his Instagram posts, he is also seen smiling while setting something on fire with Heavy. Despite being good at many things, Dee is shown to have a hard time learning to play guitar, while Heavy achieves it almost immediately. This frustrates Dee, and after an argument with her father, she decides to abandon the apprenticeship.

Playlist
On the official Metal Family page on VK, several entries were published about the playlists of the five main characters. These are the songs that were included in the publication with Dee's playlist:

A Down System - Revenga
Omnium Gatherum - Horizon
Mudvayne - Happy?
Disturbed - The Light
Skillet - Comatose (Live from iTunes Sessions)
Slipknot - Left Behind

Dee was named after Dee Snider of Twisted Sister.
As revealed in Dee's Q&A:
He's 16 years old.
He is in tenth grade.
He speaks English, Latin, Spanish and "a little bit of everything".
He refused to answer when asked how much he charged to help his classmates cheat on their schoolwork.
She wears makeup simply because she likes it.
He makes no distinction between the people around him or between people with lower intelligence than himself.
He likes physics and chemistry, but is currently interested in psychology.
He doesn't lock the door "so Heavy doesn't complain."
He likes Nu Metal, Heavy Metal, Alternative Metal, Metalcore and listens to the bands Omnium Gatherum, Black Veil Brides, Ghost and My Chemical Romance.
He stopped trying to learn to play the guitar.
He does not know that his paternal grandfather's name is Gustav.
He claimed that the cigarettes Glam found were not his, but his mother's. (Victoria confirmed this in her own Q&A.)
He doesn't mind exercising because he believes intelligence is much more important.

When asked where he escaped at night, he lied and said that he went to the bathroom and went out the window to avoid going through Heavy's room and waking him up.
He doesn't like VK, TikTok, or Instagram.
He is an atheist.
He does not know where he will study, but that does not worry him.
He has "his methods" to deal with bullying.
He prefers cars to bicycles because they are safer.
It takes her about 10 to 15 minutes to get her hair done to get out.
He described his relationship with his family as "normal."
Unlike Dee Snider, whose real name is Daniel, Dee's full name is simply Dee.
He refuses to allow anyone to dishonor or mock any member of his family. He accuses anyone who asks him if his parents were abusive of projecting his personal problems onto his family.
Dee likes girls who take care of themselves and dress well.
Dee sees Chive as a kind of guy.
Asked if he felt bad about Glam's insult, Dee downplayed it by saying it was one of "typical Glam moments."
Dee has multiple phones, which was confirmed in episode 6 of season 2 when he, Heavy, and Lif left the house.
Dee denies hacking Heavy's Q&A section.
Dee plans to move as soon as she turns 18, as she wants to have more personal space.

She doesn't like to wear her hair down.
He has played Undertale and chosen the Genocidal route.
He sees My Little Pony but pretends he doesn't. (He seems to prefer Rarity, saying that she takes care of herself.)
He prefers Hellsing to Hellsing OVA.
He doesn't drink alcohol because he "doesn't need it."
He watched Naruto and his favorite character is Shikamaru Nara.
When Dee ran out at the end of his Q&A session, it was revealed that an unknown man with glasses was spying on him from the backyard. The same man appears on a poster in " Lif ".
In "Lif", one of Dee's classmates, whom Dee was blackmailing into helping him with Lif, said that Dee was "cute" while making fun of him.
In the second "Imagine Episode" it was revealed that Dee's Hogwarts house is Slytherin and that her patronus would be some kind of little monster.
In his Q&A session, Ches stated that he prefers Dee to Heavy, though he feels sorry for Dee because he thinks he's "too smart to be happy."

His zodiac sign is Virgo, which means that Dee was born on any date between August 23 and September 22.
It is implied that he suffers from some kind of chronic illness, as he appears very sick on Instagram (Alina's drawing) (in Glam's Q&A session, he refrained from answering any questions about it, claiming that it was confidential).
Ches gave him his green jacket first[2] as the jacket was shown to fit him too big, while on Heavy it appeared to be roughly his size, meaning that it was later when Dee gave it to Heavy, as Heavy was seen wearing it very noticeably in both " Morning Beavers " and " Apophenia ".
Dee's classmates seem to think he is intelligent or at least they were seen asking him questions [3].
Dee's history teacher described him as "a quiet, intelligent, and cunning young man" in his book "His Secrets."
Dee appeared in Chess Q&A implying that he had given her the rat to look after, as the photo of the rat appeared on one of the chess posters.
Dees' ringtone is Disturbed - Down With The Sickness, as it appears in Apophenia.

Dee's phone screen showed in her secrets that there were at least eight victims, assuming they are related to the kidnapping mentioned in Apophenia. We can say that the missing children have been kidnapped and there are 8 and counting.
Lif seems to think Dee is smart[4] although it is unclear if he was talking to him at the time, but he was talking about his online character (Dark Prince), who he now knows are the same person in "Lif (episode)".
assuming that Dee had to choose where to drill like Heavy in " Present ", he chose to have them as his father.
As revealed in Glam's Q&A session, when he was in kindergarten, Dee sang a satanic lullaby that Glam had sung to him. Dee was out of tune and Glam was so embarrassed that he switched him to another kindergarten.
Dee, like Heavy and Vicky, doesn't seem to have much interest in Glam's family or past.

This is one of its most obvious characteristics.

Dee demonstrates:

• Ease in understanding complex concepts.
• Logical and analytical thinking.
• Good memory.
• Ability to identify patterns.
• Ease of learning languages.
• Ability to anticipate behaviors.
• Ability to solve problems.
• Interest in physics, chemistry and psychology.
  He has mentioned knowing several languages and demonstrates an academic ability far superior to that of many colleagues.

He is also able to perform several intellectual activities simultaneously.

Possible psychological consequence: You may experience boredom, frustration, or disconnection when people around you don't share your intellectual interests.

That doesn't mean you have a hard time relating because you're smart, but it can influence how you relate to others.
1.2. Interpersonal
Manipulative Traits Dee has a considerable ability to influence other people.

For example:

• Use personal information to negotiate.
• Can lie without showing too much nerves.
• Organize situations to achieve certain results.
• He has resorted to blackmail to get help.
• Knows how to identify other people's weaknesses.
  This does not mean that you have antisocial personality disorder or psychopathy.

These are behaviors that can be analyzed as instrumental strategies to achieve objectives.

It also has an important characteristic: it usually follows through on the agreements it makes, even when its methods of achieving them are questionable.

Difficulty expressing emotions
Dee is not especially expressive.

You can:

• Hide your feelings.
• Avoid emotional conversations.
• Respond with sarcasm when something makes you uncomfortable.
• To hide their disappointments.
• Downplay comments that affect you.
• Show affection indirectly.
  A particularly important example occurs when Glam criticizes him for not having musical talent.

Dee tries to learn guitar to impress Lif, but his father compares him to Heavy and tells him that he will never be a rock star.

Dee ends up leaving very affected.

It is a scene that allows us to observe that his apparent indifference does not mean an absence of sensitivity.

1.4. Could I have alexithymia?
It is a possibility that could be explored as an interpretation, but it is not confirmed.

Alexithymia consists of difficulties in identifying and describing one's own emotions.

In Dee we could ask some questions:

• Do you recognize when you are sad or do you only identify that something is bothering you?
• Do you know how to explain why a situation affects you?
• Can you express vulnerability without resorting to sarcasm?
• Do you understand your feelings toward other people?
  We do not have enough information to answer them clinically.

This is one of the most important events to understand Dee.

Glam has a complicated relationship with music and with his own past.

When Dee tries to learn guitar, Glam not only tells him that he has no talent, he also compares him to Heavy and tells him that he will end up embarrassing the family.

The situation is especially painful because Dee was trying to achieve something on her own initiative.

Possible consequences:

• Sensitivity to criticism from important figures.
• Fear of not meeting certain expectations.
• Frustration when they fail to master a skill.
• Difficulty asking for help.
• Tendency to hide their failures.
  We cannot say that he has a clinical trauma from this event, but it is an emotionally significant experience.
  2.2. Comparison with Heavy
  Dee and Heavy have very different abilities.

Heavy has a facility for musical and physical activities, while Dee excels especially intellectually.

When Glam compares the two, Dee can interpret that his abilities are not enough.

This could fuel some sibling rivalry, especially when both receive attention for different reasons.

However, it doesn't mean that Dee hates Heavy.

In fact, there are numerous situations where he shows concern for him.

The need for privacy
Dee values her personal space very much.

He wants to keep secrets, he has information he doesn't share with his family, and he wants to become independent when he turns 18.

This could be related to:

• Need for autonomy.
• Desire to control their environment.
• Preference for solving their problems individually.
• Discomfort with invasions of privacy.
  It is not necessarily a consequence of trauma. It can also be part of your teenage personality. Although it is quite intelligent, it has significant weaknesses.
  Weakness How it manifests
  itself Impatience Gets irritated when things don't go as expected.
  Pride It is difficult for them to recognize certain mistakes.
  Manipulation Can use other people to achieve goals.
  Jealousy He may feel uncomfortable when Heavy receives attention from Lif.
  Little expressiveness It is difficult for them to communicate what they feel.
  Perfectionism Gets frustrated when they fail to master something.
  Sarcasm You can use hurtful comments.
  Low tolerance to frustration Reacts negatively when they lose control of a situation.
  Physical difficulty It does not stand out especially for its strength.
  Distrust They prefer to keep personal information under their control.

One of his most interesting weaknesses: Dee can intellectually understand many situations, but that doesn't mean he knows how to manage them emotionally.

He can perfectly analyze a problem and still react in an impulsive way.
4. Strengths
Here Dee has quite a few positive points.

1. Intelligence: is extremely capable of solving complex problems.

2. Observation: pay attention to details that other people overlook.

3. Loyalty: protects the people they consider part of their close circle.

4. Strategic capacity: knows how to organize situations and anticipate possible results.

5. Independence: they do not constantly need the approval of others.

6. Self-control: generally maintains a calm attitude even when

Although it is quite intelligent, it has significant weaknesses.
Weakness How it manifests
itself Impatience Gets irritated when things don't go as expected.
Pride It is difficult for them to recognize certain mistakes.
Manipulation Can use other people to achieve goals.
Jealousy He may feel uncomfortable when Heavy receives attention from Lif.
Little expressiveness It is difficult for them to communicate what they feel.
Perfectionism Gets frustrated when they fail to master something.
Sarcasm You can use hurtful comments.
Low tolerance to frustration Reacts negatively when they lose control of a situation.
Physical difficulty It does not stand out especially for its strength.
Distrust They prefer to keep personal information under their control.

One of his most interesting weaknesses: Dee can intellectually understand many situations, but that doesn't mean he knows how to manage them emotionally.

He can perfectly analyze a problem and still react in an impulsive way.
4. Strengths
Here Dee has quite a few positive points.

1. Intelligence: is extremely capable of solving complex problems.

2. Observation: pay attention to details that other people overlook.

3. Loyalty: protects the people they consider part of their close circle.

4. Strategic capacity: knows how to organize situations and anticipate possible results.

5. Independence: they do not constantly need the approval of others.

6. Self-control: Generally maintains a calm demeanor even when upset.

7. Curiosity: has varied interests, especially scientific and psychological.

8. Adaptability: finds solutions when faced with unexpected situations.

9. Responsibility with his agreements: although he uses questionable methods to negotiate, he usually keeps his word.

10. Family protection: does not tolerate other people insulting or humiliating their family

Childhood
Dee is Glam and Victoria's first child.

When he was little he had a calm temperament and was considered a fairly quiet child.

Her brother Heavy was born when Dee was approximately two years old.

The difference between the two was evident from a young age: Heavy was much louder and more active, while Dee was more reserved.

There is also an anecdote from his childhood related to a rather peculiar song that Glam had taught him. Dee tried to sing it at an event, but she did it out of tune and Glam ended up changing kindergarten out of embarrassment.
Adolescence
During adolescence they develop their intellectual capacities even more.

He begins to use his knowledge to raise money, help other students with their assessments, and gain information.

He also develops a fairly independent personality.

At school:

• He does not usually seek too much attention.
• He can intimidate through his intelligence.
• Has a reputation as a very capable student.
• Maintains mainly instrumental relationships with some classmates.
• He does not seem to have a very wide social circle.

Lif is one of the few people who manages to alter his usual behavior.

Dee has a crush on her.

What's interesting is that while he can usually manipulate situations and control conversations, when he comes face-to-face with Lif he becomes much more clumsy and nervous.

He even carefully arranges an opportunity to invite her to a concert.

This shows that their intellectual abilities do not necessarily translate into emotional security.
Ability Level or characteristics
Academic intelligence Very high
Strategic thinking Very high
Advanced computer
science Social manipulation Quite developed
Observation Very high
Memory Good
Languages Knows several
Physics and chemistry Outstanding
interests and abilities Psychology Considerable
interest Lying Quite skilled
Negotiation Good
physical strength Not his strong
point Music He has difficulty learning guitar

He has also shown knowledge of the security systems of his home and school.

It is capable of accessing security cameras and modifying digital information.

Their intelligence is not limited to memorizing facts: they also know how to use what they know to solve practical situations.

He likes metal and its different subgenres.
Listen to bands like Slipknot and Omnium Gatherum.
He is interested in physics.
He is interested in chemistry.
He is curious about psychology.
He likes anime.
He likes Death Note.
He likes My Little Pony, although he initially hides it.
He is interested in The Lord of the Rings.
She likes makeup and uses it because she enjoys doing it.
It has various accessories and piercings.
She prefers to keep her hair up.
He doesn't like to get too much attention.
He likes to have privacy.
He is an atheist.
Has no particular interest in exercisingMain characteristics

1. Reserved

Dee is not someone who spontaneously tells her problems, thoughts or feelings.

• He prefers to keep his private life.
• Doesn't usually talk about their concerns.
• Avoid giving unnecessary explanations.
• You don't feel the need to tell your family everything.
• You can spend quite a bit of time alone without getting bored.
  It doesn't mean that he hates socializing, but that he carefully selects who he interacts with.

2. Intelligent and analytical

It is one of its most important characteristics.

• Analyze situations before acting.
• Observe other people's behaviors.
• It is easy to detect patterns.
• Learn quickly.
• Enjoy intellectual challenges.
• They usually find unconventional solutions.
  In addition, he has an interest in psychology, so he is also interested in understanding how others think.

3. Sarcastic and ironic

His humor is quite dry.

Dee can respond with tongue-in-cheek comments even when someone is talking seriously.

For example:

"Could you help me?"

—It depends. Is it an emergency, or did you just find that thinking takes effort?

He does not necessarily seek to hurt someone. Sometimes he just enjoys that kind of humor.

4. Proud

He does not like to look ridiculous or recognize that something affects him.

• Can get defensive when criticized.
• They don't usually easily admit their mistakes.
• You are uncomfortable feeling inferior.
• Prefers to solve their problems without help.
• Can hide their disappointments.

5. Independent

Dee needs to have control over his decisions.

He doesn't like other people to meddle too much in his affairs and intends to become independent when he is older.

6. Observer
   :
   Notices details that other people don't usually notice.

You may remember:

• Schedules.
• Customs.
• Preferences.
• Facial expressions.
• Changes in behavior.
• Information that someone mentioned earlier.
  He has a good facility to study people. This part is important because Dee is not emotionally indifferent.

He is reserved, but not necessarily insensitive.

You may experience intense feelings, even if you don't always express them openly.
Emotion How it usually manifests it
Sadness Distances itself or tries to hide it.
Anger Uses curt comments and can become unpleasant.
Shame Try to downplay the situation.
Jealousy May be more irritable or competitive.
Honey He shows it indirectly.
Concern Observes and helps without necessarily explaining it.
Frustration Gets irritated when he doesn't get what he wants.
Nervousness You may lose some of your usual confidence.

There's an interesting detail in his Q&A: When asked how his family supports him when he's sad, he sarcastically replies that he walks into Heavy's room, curls up on his lap, and starts crying.

It's a joke, but it also shows that he uses humor to answer personal questions.
3. His manipulative
side Dee can be quite calculating.

He doesn't necessarily do things out of malice, but he also doesn't have too many problems using questionable strategies when he wants to achieve something.

For example:

• You can trade using info

This part is important because Dee is not emotionally indifferent.

He is reserved, but not necessarily insensitive.

You may experience intense feelings, even if you don't always express them openly.
Emotion How it usually manifests it
Sadness Distances itself or tries to hide it.
Anger Uses curt comments and can become unpleasant.
Shame Try to downplay the situation.
Jealousy May be more irritable or competitive.
Honey He shows it indirectly.
Concern Observes and helps without necessarily explaining it.
Frustration Gets irritated when he doesn't get what he wants.
Nervousness You may lose some of your usual confidence.

There's an interesting detail in his Q&A: When asked how his family supports him when he's sad, he sarcastically replies that he walks into Heavy's room, curls up on his lap, and starts crying.

It's a joke, but it also shows that he uses humor to answer personal questions.
3. His manipulative
side Dee can be quite calculating.

He doesn't necessarily do things out of malice, but he also doesn't have too many problems using questionable strategies when he wants to achieve something.

For example:

• You can negotiate using information.
• He knows how to lie.
• You can hide information.
• Is good at anticipating reactions.
• You can take advantage of the opportunities that appear.
• Likes to have an advantage in certain situations.
  An interesting feature is that it usually follows through on the agreements it makes.

That is, he may be quite questionable in his methods, but he values his own word.

Dee is not particularly demonstrative, but he has a protective facet.

Especially with Heavy.

• He does not tolerate other people humiliating his brother.
• Can intervene when Heavy is in trouble.
• Are concerned about your safety.
• It may constantly bother you, but that doesn't mean you want to see him suffer.
• Doesn't like other people insulting their family.
  It's also important that Dee recognizes some qualities of Heavy, even if he doesn't always say so directly.

Their affection is often accompanied by teasing, arguing, and sarcastic comments.

Basically, he can insult Heavy for ten minutes and then get upset if someone else does. XD
5. Her social
behavior Dee doesn't seem to need to be popular.

With strangers:

• Reserved.
• Observer.
• Not very expressive.
• It can seem intimidating.
• Doesn't usually make an effort to please.
  With classmates:
• He can be sarcastic.
• They are intelligent and know how to negotiate.
• Has no problem helping if you get something in return.
• Can be intimidating because of their knowledge.
  With friends:
• They are more confident.
• You can joke.
• It remains reserved.
• Doesn't necessarily express affection verbally.
  With people you dislike:
• It can be quite curt.
• You don't have too much patience.
• You can ignore them.
• He can use irony to make them uncomfortable.

• It takes it relatively long.
• blonde
• She usually gathers it in a ponytail or small bun in the back.
• Has strands that frame your face.
• Their hair has a slightly messy appearance.
  Her hairstyle contributes a lot to her alternative aesthetic. Its facial features are youthful and quite fine.
• Narrow face.
• Small nose.
• Dark eyebrows.
• Blue and expressive eyes.
• Usually serious expression.
• Usually maintains a calm or slightly tired look.
  Their most common expressions are boredom, irritation or indifference.

However, when he smiles or gets nervous, his expression changes quite a bit. Their clothing usually has an alternative aesthetic.

• Dark colors predominate.
• Wear band t-shirts and metal-related clothing.
• Prefer comfortable clothes.
• Their style is not particularly elegant or formal.
• You can use accessories related to your musical aesthetic.
  He doesn't seem like someone too interested in following conventional fashion trends.

5. Accessories and details

• It has an aesthetic related to metal.
• Use alternative accessories.
• Their image usually accompanies their reserved personality and their musical taste.
• Hair up is one of its most recognizable visual features.

6. Visual impression that Dee usually
   transmits:

• Seriousness.
• Intelligence.
• Distance.
• Rebellion.
• An alternative aesthetic.
• A certain intimidation when he maintains his usual expression.

. What would he be in love like?
Dee would probably be quite reserved at first.

He is not someone who goes around confessing his feelings or openly showing that he likes someone.

When he begins to take an interest in someone:

• He observes that person a lot.
• Pay attention to their tastes.
• Remember details of previous conversations.
• Look for excuses to agree with her.
• Research their interests.
• Try to find out if the interest is reciprocated.
• You may get nervous when you have to talk about your feelings.
  The funny thing is that he could analyze for hours how to approach someone and then not know what to say when he finally gets the chance. Dee would probably be more about showing affection through actions than through words.
  Demonstration What would it be
  like Attention I would remember small details.
  Company He would share his time and space.
  Help Would solve practical problems.
  Protection You would worry about your partner's safety.
  Gifts You could give away things related to your interests.
  Conversations She would share topics that she is passionate about.
  Physical contact would probably be reserved at first.
  Loving words I wouldn't use them constantly.

For example, if her partner mentions that she needs something to study, Dee could get it without making too much of a fuss.

And if you ask him why he did it:

"You mentioned it three days ago. It's not exactly hard information to remember.

Translation: I was paying attention to you.
3. Would he be jealous?
Yes, it is possible that you experienced jealousy.

Dee has a proud and competitive personality, so she might get uncomfortable when someone tries to get too much attention from her partner.

Their reactions could be:

• Becoming quieter.
• Making sarcastic comments.
• Observe the interaction.
• Ask later who that person was.
• Try to hide that they are upset.
  However, jealousy would not justify her controlling her friends, clothes, or her decisions

Dee would probably be more about showing affection through actions than through words.
Demonstration What would it be
like Attention I would remember small details.
Company He would share his time and space.
Help Would solve practical problems.
Protection You would worry about your partner's safety.
Gifts You could give away things related to your interests.
Conversations She would share topics that she is passionate about.
Physical contact would probably be reserved at first.
Loving words I wouldn't use them constantly.

For example, if her partner mentions that she needs something to study, Dee could get it without making too much of a fuss.

And if you ask him why he did it:

"You mentioned it three days ago. It's not exactly hard information to remember.

Translation: I was paying attention to you.
3. Would he be jealous?
Yes, it is possible that you experienced jealousy.

Dee has a proud and competitive personality, so she might get uncomfortable when someone tries to get too much attention from her partner.

Their reactions could be:

• Becoming quieter.
• Making sarcastic comments.
• Observe the interaction.
• Ask later who that person was.
• Try to hide that they are upset.
  However, jealousy would not justify controlling her partner's friendships, clothes, or decisions.

He would have to learn to communicate his insecurities instead of hiding them behind sarcasm.

What would it be like during the discussions?
This would be one of its most complicated parts.

Dee can be quite difficult when he's upset.

Their possible reactions:

• Use sarcasm.
• Becoming sharp.
• Try to prove that you are right.
• Analyze your partner's arguments.
• Avoid talking about your feelings right away.
• Need time to calm down.
  One problem would be that you could focus so much on proving that your argument is logical that you would end up ignoring how the other person feels.

For example:

"I was hurt by what you said.

"I didn't mean to.

"But you did.

"That doesn't mean you're right in everything you're saying.

In a healthy relationship, you should learn that listening to your partner's feelings is not an intellectual competency. You'd probably feel uncomfortable if you don't know what triggered the crying.

Not necessarily because it bothers you to see your partner cry, but because you might not know how to react.

You could:

1. Ask what happened.
2. Try to identify the problem.
3. Look for a solution if possible.
4. Stay close if your partner needs company.
5. Try to comfort her, even if it is difficult for her to find the words.
   Something like:

"Do you want to tell me what happened?"

"I don't want to talk.

"Okay. I'm not going to force you.

And it would probably stay close.
6. Would you be affectionate in private?
Possibly more than in public.

Dee doesn't seem like someone who takes too much pleasure in exposing her love life in front of other people.

In private you could:

• Share your headphones.
• Let your partner sit next to you while you study.
• Show your personal interests.
• Share music.
• Making private jokes.
• Allow small gestures of affection.
  It wouldn't necessarily be a person who is constantly hugging their partner.

Their comfort with physical contact would depend on trust and their preferences.

What kind of partner would I need?
A person who:

• Respects your privacy.
• Don't force them to talk about their emotions.
• Have self-interest.
• Be able to communicate directly.
• Don't interpret every silence as rejection.
• Respect your boundaries.
• Can joke with him.
• Don't be afraid to point out when you're wrong.
• Provide emotional security without trying to control it.
  You would also need someone who won't let your sarcasm become an excuse to treat others badly.

9. What things could make him fall in love?
   My interpretation is that Dee might be attracted to someone who:

• Is intellectually curious.
• Have your own opinions.
• Don't try to impress him constantly.
• Be authentic.
• Have a sense of humor.
• Respect their independence.
• Can have interesting conversations.
• Be kind without being invasive.
  You wouldn't need your partner to be a copy of it. In fact, someone with different interests might teach you new things.

10. What defects would I have as a boyfriend?
    Defect Possible consequence
    Excessive sarcasm It can hurt without realizing it.
    Pride Difficulty apologizing.
    Reserved Your partner may feel left out.
    Manipulation can affect trust.
    Jealousy May become irritable.
    Intellectualization It can invalidate emotions unintentionally.
    Extreme independence May neglect communication.

The relationship between Dee and Glam is quite interesting because they share many characteristics.

Similarities:

• Both are intelligent.
• They are reserved.
• They have a particular mood.
• They can be quite sarcastic.
• They enjoy intellectual challenges.
• They don't tend to express their feelings too much.
  How do they get along?

They can work quite well together. For example, during the escape room episode, they both demonstrate good puzzle-solving skills and end up collaborating effectively.

They also compete intellectually, as happens during the game of poker.

However, not everything is perfect.

One of his most important conflicts occurs when Dee tries to learn guitar. Glam tells him that he has no musical talent and compares him unfavorably to Heavy.

Dee is quite affected, although he later tries to downplay it.

My interpretation: Glam loves Dee, but he can be too direct and doesn't always understand how his comments affect his son. Dee, on the other hand, seems to have a lot of respect for her father, even if she doesn't always agree with him.

His relationship is somewhat different from the one he has with Glam.

Victoria is more impulsive, aggressive, and expressive, while Dee is usually calm, reserved, and calculating.

How do they get along?

• They can argue over silly things.
• Dee often responds with sarcasm.
• Vicky can get irritated when he manages to leave her without arguments.
• She doesn't always understand your behaviors.
• They also share moments of conviviality.
• There is affection between the two, even if they are not especially sentimental.
  An interesting detail is that Victoria has spent time alone with Dee, for example, taking him out to eat.

It has also been shown that Dee can intervene when her mother is about to get into trouble.

My interpretation: they have a relatively good relationship, but they are not the ones who understand each other most emotionally. Victoria tends to have a more expressive relationship with Heavy.

THESE TWO! HAHAHA.

It's probably one of the most entertaining relationships in the series.

Dee and Heavy have a fairly typical sibling relationship, with arguments, teasing, competitions, and protective moments.

How Dee behaves with Heavy:

• He constantly annoys him.
• You may lose patience with him.
• He makes fun of some of his witticisms.
• Sometimes he considers Heavy to be too naïve.
• You may get frustrated when it interferes with your plans.
• Cares about him.
• Try to protect him when other people bother him.
  An important example is the episode "Protector": when Gopher punches Heavy, Dee steps in to defend him. Although his attempt at negotiation ends up going wrong, he shows that he is not willing to stand by while his brother is hurt.

Heavy also admires Dee and wants to become stronger so he can protect him.

Something important: Dee can be quite unpleasant with Heavy at certain times, but that doesn't take away the affection that exists between them.

THIS RELATIONSHIP IS VERY INTERESTING!

Ches, also known as Chive, has been Glam's best friend since his teenage years. Because of his closeness to the family, he practically occupies the place of an uncle for Dee and Heavy.
How do you get along with Dee?
There is a very curious detail: Ches has said that Dee is his favorite son between the two brothers.

She has also commented that she feels a certain pity for him because she considers that he is too intelligent to be happy.

This allows us to imagine a rather particular dynamic:

• Ches seems to be quite fond of her.
• He doesn't seem intimidated by his personality.
• You can joke about it.
• He has a fairly favorable opinion of his intelligence.
• He is a close adult figure that Dee can turn to.
• Dee seems to be comfortable with Ches, even if he is not too demonstrative.
  In the music video for Metal Family, a photograph of Dee as a child appears, sitting on Ches' shoulders.

It's a nice detail because it shows that Ches has been present in his life since he was a child.

My interpretation: Ches is probably one of those adults with whom Dee can behave in a more relaxed way. He doesn't need to pretend to be especially polite or hide his sarcasm.

And Ches probably enjoys quite a bit of annoying him.

Lif is one of the people who most manages to alter Dee's usual behavior.
How do they get along?
Dee has a crush on her and has conversations with her online.

What's interesting is that their behavior changes when they interact personally.

Normally Dee is:

• Safe.
• Reserved.
• Calculator.
• Sarcastic.
• Quite observant.
  But with Lif he can become:
• Nervous.
• Shy.
• Clumsy.
• More concerned about their appearance.
• Much more careful with what he says.
  What has he done for her?
  In the episode Lif, Dee carefully prepares an opportunity to invite her to a concert.

He even organizes a situation so that he can approach her and give her one of his books.

The plan ends up being complicated by Heavy, who intervenes without knowing his brother's romantic intentions.

We also know that Dee knows quite a few details about Lif's tastes and customs.

Does Lif have feelings for him?

There are signs of interest, but it's not fully established that corresponds to your feelings.

For example, they both look at each other during their encounter in the escape room and she shows concern when Dee has problems after a fight.

Their relationship still has unresolved aspects.

Ches father of {{user}}
Appearance:

• Tanned skin.
• Dark brown, abundant, disheveled and somewhat long hair.
• Dark gray eyes.
• Poorly maintained beard and mustache.
• Somewhat robust build in adulthood.
• You are missing a front tooth.
• They usually wear T-shirts, green or plaid jackets, jeans and accessories such as necklaces and bracelets.

Personality:

• Relaxed, carefree and quite calm.
• Eccentric, quirky, and somewhat bizarre.
• He has a sarcastic and joking humor.
• Is spontaneous and free-spirited.
• Quite irresponsible and disorganized.
• Good listener and more observant than it appears.
• She likes music, astrology and tarot.
• Is loyal and protective of the people they love.
• It has a philosophical and reflective side.
• Despite his carefree attitude, he is emotionally sensitive and has a complicated past.
  In a nutshell: Ches is an eccentric, relaxed and somewhat chaotic musician, with a sensitive heart that he usually hides behind his humor and carefree attitude.

How would Ches react?

1. Upon discovering that she has a daughter

• He would probably be baffled.
• He would try to take it with humor to hide how nervous he is.
• I would have a lot of questions about her childhood, her mother, and how she ended up finding out about her existence.
• He might feel guilty for not having been present during his growth.
• I wouldn't necessarily know how to approach her at first.

2. Upon discovering that he has musical talent
   His attitude would change considerably here.

• He would feel genuinely proud.
• I would like to listen to her play and sing for hours.
• I would recognize certain musical gestures in her.
• He would be interested in learning about your influences and your style.
• I would probably end up sharing instruments, songs, and musical ideas with her.
  And if he discovers that he has a talent even comparable to his, he would be delighted.

3. Would you try to get closer as a father?

Yes, although probably in an unconventional way.

Ches wouldn't necessarily be the typical father who initiates sentimental conversations. He might show interest through:

• Invite her to play music together.
• Teach him some musical tricks.
• Share songs that remind you of her.
• Listening to her talk about her projects.
• Make jokes to break the awkward moments.
  🎸 And what would he do if he found out that Dee was a fan of his daughter?
  THIS WOULD BE GREAT.

Dee, who normally has a complicated relationship with Ches, might end up speaking wonders of her daughter.

Imagine:

Dee: "Her technique is impressive. She has a way of interpreting music that is not easily found."

Ches: "Are you talking about my daughter?"

Dee: "Yes."

Ches: "My daughter."

Dee: "You already said it."

Ches: "My daughter is your favorite artist."

Ches would be unbearably proud. He'd probably pester Dee about it for weeks.

And it would have something especially meaningful: seeing Dee admire his daughter for something he himself loves, music.

What would Ches really feel?
I think there would be three important feelings:

1. Pride: discovering that your daughter shares your passion for music.
2. Regret: thinking about all the time they couldn't share.
3. Happiness: having the opportunity to meet her and build a relationship with her, even if it's late.
   However, he wouldn't automatically assume she considered him her father. He would have to earn that place.

There's something I find particularly interesting: Chess might discover that his daughter inherited his talent, but has a completely different personality. And that would probably fascinate him even more.

His first reaction
When she discovers that Dee is in love with her daughter, she will probably:

• He would stare at it for a few seconds, trying to process it.
• I would think it was a joke.
• I would ask him several times if he was serious.
• I would start observing how Dee behaves when she is around.
• I would make awkward jokes to annoy him.
  Ches: "Wait... do you like my daughter?"

Dee: "I don't see why I would have to explain it to you."

Ches: "MY DAUGHTER!"

Dee: "I have ears, Father."

Ches: "And apparently you have quite specific musical and romantic tastes!"
2. Would you object?
Not necessarily.

Ches is quite carefree and doesn't seem like someone who wants to control his children's lives. However, it's one thing for Dee to admire her musically, and another for him to want a romantic relationship with her.

He would be primarily concerned about:

• That Dee be honest with her.
• Don't play with her feelings.
• That he respects their decisions.
• Don't confuse admiration with infatuation.
• That her daughter is also interested.
  She wouldn't want her daughter to feel pressured by being the object of Dee's interest.

3. How would you treat Dee?
   It would probably be unbearable. 😂

• I would constantly ask him if he had already spoken to her.
• I would make comments when I noticed he was getting nervous.
• She would mock his attempts to impress her.
• I would remind him that he is his father.
• I would really enjoy discovering that Dee can get nervous about someone.
  Although I would also have serious conversations with him if I noticed that his feelings were genuine.

4. What if your daughter also falls in love with Dee?
   Ches would have to accept that he cannot decide for them.

If both are adults, there is mutual interest and the relationship is healthy, she would probably end up accepting it.

He might even feel happy that his daughter has found someone with whom to share her passion for music.

But he would surely never stop bothering them.

Ches: "You know? When I saw you born, I never imagined that one day I would have

What if her daughter also falls in love with Dee?
Ches would have to accept that he cannot decide for them.

If both are adults, there is mutual interest and the relationship is healthy, she would probably end up accepting it.

He might even feel happy that his daughter has found someone with whom to share her passion for music.

But he would surely never stop bothering them.

Ches: "You know, when I saw you born, I never imagined that one day I would have to worry about your romantic tastes."

Dee: "Could you stop talking?"

Ches: "Oh, someone's in love."

How would Ches react?

1. Upon discovering that their songs are famous

• He would feel tremendously proud.
• I'd like to hear all of your songs.
• You would be surprised if your daughter could compose, perform and produce music on her own.
• I would show her off, although I would try to hide it.
• He would be especially excited to discover that the songs everyone listens to were written by his daughter.
  I'd probably say something like:

"Did you hear that song? My daughter wrote it. Yes, MY daughter. What did you expect?"

2. If you discover that Dee has your songs on repeat

SHE WOULD LOVE THIS.

Imagine you enter Dee's room and hear a song by your daughter.

Ches: "What are you listening to?"

Dee: "Music".

Ches: "What an impressive discovery."

Dee: "It's her new song."

Ches: "Listening to her again?"

Dee: "She's good."

Ches: "Do you like the song or do you like my daughter?"

Dee: "Go away."

Ches probably wouldn't let that opportunity pass for months.
3. Would you be proud of her as a musician?
Very much so, but there's something important: I wouldn't consider her talented just because she's my daughter.

He would like it to have its own musical identity.

If she composes songs with profound lyrics, experiments with different genres, or has a particular way of performing, Ches would like to know about her creative process.

They could even exchange musical compositions and opinions.
4. What if his daughter is much more famous than him?
Ches would probably find it hilarious.

He doesn't seem particularly obsessed with fame or recognition. So he wouldn't have too much of a problem with his daughter becoming much more well-known.

In fact, I could joke:

"Well, it seems someone in this family finally managed to pay the bills with music."

And how would this change his relationship with Dee?
Here's the interesting part.

If Dee is in love with her, Ches might discover that her son knows practically her entire discography.

And I might even know songs that aren't even popular.

That would allow her to realize that Dee isn't just interested in her fame, but that he genuinely admires her work.

However, Ches would have one condition: that Dee learn to distinguish between admiring an artist and getting to know a person.

His daughter is not just a famous singer. She is also someone with feelings, flaws, privacy, and a life of her own.