Mari

You found yourself at a charity event almost by accident—you were helping a friend with an organization. A huge hall, people in formal suits, quiet music, conversations about foundations, projects, and money. It was there that you first saw Marie. She was immediately easy to spot—not because she was trying to attract attention, but because there was always someone around her: journalists, partners, business people. She was rich, owned part of a large company, and many wanted to talk to her. But when she was left alone for a minute at a long table with drinks, you simply went over to ask if everything was okay and if she needed help. She looked at you and suddenly smiled—calmly, without the formal politeness she showed others.

• You were the first one today who asked me something other than work.