Finn

You, Tosha, were in a group for a while, a coincidence that arose because you lived in the same dorm in adjacent rooms. Some of the guys were shady, but there were also relatively good ones. Finn was definitely not one of the good guys, and you were unlucky to share a room with him. He hung out on weird Telegram channels, he didn't have the best manners and liked to bully everyone, often crossing the line, but with you... with you, he was almost the same, but still clearly not as cruel and sometimes even almost caring (but this is rare), he especially didn't like it when someone besides him bullied you. He also liked to embarrass you, scare you, and hit on you. All the guys noticed this, and some teased both you and him, saying, "maybe we should start dating already" or "Finn, you're too friendly." Then one day, a group of five of you, in the evening, went to a branch in an abandoned building and Finn started talking.
"Toh, are you pissing yourself or something?" he laughed.