♨️ !! EDGAR !! ♨️

❌ 8. People who brag

People who:
• They believe they are superior
• They recount achievements as if seeking approval.
• They look down on him

That doesn't intimidate him.
It irritates him deeply because it reminds him of the parts of himself that he has tried to hide.

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❌ 9. Emotional interrogations

Edgar does not tolerate:
• "What do you have?"
• “Why are you like this?”
• “Do you hate me?”
• “What do you feel for me?”

It's not that I don't have answers.
She doesn't know how to say them without breaking down, so she prefers to stay silent and run away.

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❌ 10. Being ignored when you finally speak

When you decide to speak up, open up, or ask for something, it's a huge effort.
If at that moment:
• interrupt
• invalidate
• They don't pay attention to him

He takes it as confirmation that he should never have said anything.

❌ 7. Being compared to others
Especially:
• “Colette does it better”
• “Other employees don't complain”
• “She wears prettier colors”
• “He does smile”
Comparing him makes him feel inadequate, and that's his strongest trigger:
He prefers to retire rather than compete.

❌ 1. Being treated like an “emo kid”
He dislikes being reduced to his appearance or to a stereotype:
• “He's just angry because he's a teenager”
• “It's dramatic”
• “She just wants attention”

Edgar hides behind his aesthetic, but he uses it to avoid stars, not to attract them.
When it is invalidated, the double closes.
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❌ 2. That they make fun of things that do matter to them

It doesn't bother him if they criticize the price of a product or a meme.
But if they make fun of:
• her scarf
• his style
• his silence
• what he does in his free time
• their lack of interaction

That directly affects him.
He won't show it, but that's when he becomes cold, cutting, and poisonous.
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❌ 3. Being required to be sociable

Force him to:
• smile
• talk
• participate
• live together
• “Be kind”

It makes him feel watched and trapped.
He becomes defensive and distant, because he doesn't know how to feign comfort where he doesn't feel it.
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❌ 4. That they invade their personal space

It's not a "normal" upset.
It's a visceral rejection:
• people attached to him
• unannounced hugs
• touch her hair
• surround it

He feels like he's losing control.
Their typical response: to step back, avoid eye contact, and disappear.
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❌ 5. Noisy people who ignore boundaries

Not just cheerful people.
He is bothered by people who:
• They don't listen
• interrupt
• they shout
• are imposed
• “They don't understand no”

That guy wears him out quickly, and then he responds with hostility or sharp sarcasm.
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❌ 6. That they minimize their emotions

He will hate phrases like:
• “It's not that big of a deal.”
• “Stop exaggerating.”
• “Just relax.”
• “You have no reason to feel that way.”

Edgar doesn't show emotions precisely because he fears that they will be invalidated.
If you press it, it turns off.
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❌ 7. Being compared to others
Especially:
• “Colette does it better”
• “Other employees don't complain”
• “She wears prettier colors”
• “He does smile”

✔ 1. Dark aesthetic and black clothing

It's not "fashion", it's identity.
She likes:
• black
• gray
• dark purple
• Accessories such as scarves, gloves, belts

Avoid bright colors.
They make him feel vulnerable or ridiculous.

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✔ 2. Melancholic or intense music

Edgar connects with songs:
• sad
• aggressive
• introspective
• emo/alternative rock

She doesn't listen to happy music "to cheer herself up".
Listen to things that resonate with their mood.

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✔ 3. Silence and quiet spaces

Love:
• places with few people
• empty corridors
• spaces where no one will bother him

Solitude calms him.
Not because he hates everyone... but because he feels safe without social pressure.

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✔ 4. Observe without participating

Edgar looks at the world from behind:
• studies gestures
• analyzes reactions
• listen to conversations

You don't need to speak, just understand.

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✔ 5. Small things with meaning

Although he acts cold, he likes details like:
• a new scarf
• a strange pin
• a keyring that no one else has

He is not materialistic, just sentimental about certain objects.

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✔ 6. The feeling of adrenaline

His superpower is no coincidence.
Edgar enjoys speed, risk, and jumping:
• react quickly
• to move impulsively
• feel that you are in control of the moment

Action is an emotional release valve.

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✔ 7. “Calm” people

He doesn't like extroverted social magnets.
He's attracted to people:
• calm
• observer
• that it doesn't invade their space
• that he respects her silence

He's not looking for someone to speak for him…
but someone with whom I can exist without discomfort.

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✔ 8. Coffee (or bitter drinks)

Edgar prefers strong flavors:
• black coffee
• dark tea
• sugar-free drinks

Bitterness has its own beauty:
He doesn't try to please everyone.

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✔ 9. Reading dense material

Although he doesn't say so, he likes:
• sleeves
• tragic stories
• solitary characters
• narratives where the protagonists struggle with themselves

He finds obvious happy endings boring.

1. Introverted and reserved

He doesn't speak unless it's necessary.
He prefers quiet spaces, little interaction, and avoiding long conversations.
He's not shy: he's selective. He only talks to people he thinks are worth it.

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2. Sarcasm as a shield

When he doesn't know what to say, he responds with irony:
• short comments
• dry tone
• somewhat aggressive jokes

It's not that I want to hurt anyone.
It's his way of protecting himself: "I laugh before you laugh at me."

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3. Antisocial (but not cruel) attitude

Avoid people because:
• it tires him
• it saturates it
• It makes him nervous

That doesn't mean I hate everyone.
He simply has trouble connecting and doesn't know what to do with his attention.

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4. Hidden sensitivity

Inside, he feels a lot, too much.
He gets frustrated easily, he compares himself, he questions himself.
He doesn't want to be seen as weak, that's why:
• lower your gaze
• crosses arms
• hides behind her scarf
• acts as if “nothing matters”

Their emo style is not empty aesthetics: it is an emotional mechanism.

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5. Impulsive

He doesn't think before he acts.
He is quick to react, to jump, to fight.
His super in the game reflects his personality:
Edgar jumps in first and worries later.

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6. Proud

If he makes a mistake, he doesn't admit it easily.
If someone corrects him, he becomes serious or walks away.
He has that adolescent pride of:
"I'm fine. I don't need help."

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7. Loyal to those who manage to enter his circle

It's not open to just anyone.
But if someone gets through its walls:
• defends him
• worries
• take care without saying it

Show affection with actions, not words:
looking for you, covering shifts, bringing you something, standing next to you.

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8. Observer

He doesn't speak, but he sees EVERYTHING:
• who's looking at whom
• Who is sad?
• where there is danger
• what is out of place

His silence is active, not empty.

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9. Low tolerance

They bother him:
• noises
• clumsiness
• persistent people
• very happy people

Edgar communicates without speaking much:
• Crossing arms when uncomfortable or defensive
• He looks to the side when something excites him but he doesn't want to admit it.
• He runs his hand through his hair when it gets irritated.
• Avoid direct eye contact when you feel vulnerable.