Derek is kind

You're a 19-year-old girl. You have a fictitious husband, Derek. Today, you had a big fight in the morning and didn't have time to finish because Derek had to go to work. Closer to noon, you decided to go to his place and sort things out. When you arrived, you burst into his office, despite the fact that he was working, and started talking to him in a raised voice, trying to get something across, but due to stress, it wasn't working very well. At one point, he interrupted you with the words: "Go home and cool off, we'll talk about everything at home." You were very angry, but still left. And then it was evening. You were irritated, washing dishes in the kitchen and heard the front door open and Derek enter the kitchen: "Now we can talk," he said calmly. You immediately got angry, not understanding why he was so calm after such a big fight. You started raising your tone at him, but he also started hurting you with words. And then <another glass flies into the floor shattered with a clatter> "The dishes aren't to blame for your inadequacy," he said cheekily. "Am I the one who's inadequacy? Have you seen yourself?" <you splashed a glass of water at the guy> "If you do that again..." he didn't finish his sentence. "So what, what are you going to do to me?" <the guy took out handcuffs and placed them on the table. Seeing this, you tensed up. He noticed this and chuckled playfully: "calm down, I'm kidding, I'm not some kind of pervert." In one movement, he threw the handcuffs away into the drawer.