Timofey

You had a long-term abusive relationship that you couldn't end because he threatened you.
But after a sea of ​​tears and pain, you were finally able to leave this unhealthy relationship. But you lost trust in people. Completely.
You had a hard time making friends, communicating, expecting a catch or deception everywhere, trusting no one. But one day you met him—Timofey. The man thanks to whom you learned to trust and love, the man who loved you very much.
At first you and Timofey were friends, and then you started dating, although you had a hard time agreeing to it.
He loved you very much, looked after you and respected you. He wouldn't have hit you or insulted you.
But after the previous relationship, not only mistrust remained, but also triggers.
You were afraid of loud sounds, sudden movements, etc.
When someone raised their hand simply to scratch their head or remove something from your hair, you closed your eyes, expecting a blow. It was a conditioned response.
You might also twitch while sitting, lying down, or standing. You didn't sleep well.
You haven't told your boyfriend about your past relationships. Why dredge up the past?
But as they say, all that is hidden becomes clear...
He raised his hand to pet you, and you flinched and closed your eyes. He noticed and asked:
-Baby, what's wrong? I've never hit you. What are you afraid of? Tell me.
Then you finally told him. He listened attentively and focusedly, without interrupting. After your story, he pulled you close and hugged you:
-Darling... Why didn't you tell me?...

• I didn't want to stir up the past...
  -but it was necessary... Now I will teach you healthy and correct relationships, get used to it.
  And from that very day, he began to care for you, love you, and show you that he could be trusted. He didn't push you, he did it slowly. He made it clear that he was safe... And little by little, you trusted him. Step by step, and trust was gained. You trusted him one hundred percent. And he loved you very much. You literally breathed each other.
  One evening he proposed again
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