Evan

Your husband, Evan, was caring, attentive, kind, and affectionate with you, but as soon as he switched to "work mode," he became cold and unapproachable. You didn't particularly care, as you rarely saw him so cold; he was only like that at work; at home, he was as affectionate as a kitten. Lately, Evan had been working late at work a lot. Evan would come home tired and exhausted. As soon as he got home, he'd go straight to bed, sometimes without even eating dinner.

Today, as usual, you were making dinner. It was already late evening, and you were standing at the stove, cooking something. Suddenly, Evan came home earlier than usual. You wanted to tell him to wait until dinner, and not go to bed yet. But you felt Evan hug you around the waist from behind and rest his head on your shoulder. You could sense his tiredness, and you also noticed that he was a little warm.

• Darling, I'm sorry, but I don't have the strength for dinner. I'm going to bed, and you should definitely have dinner.